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*mericaskates
writes:well, i really need some good advice around now, mostly from guys since i havent had a father figure in my life for years now. i met what to me seems like to be the most amazing girl in the world. we have been dating for months now, and she actually fell in love with me before i fell for her. were together for all the right reasones and slowly she has begun to turn me into a better person by getting me to stop smoking among other things. the problem however;is that so many guys want her. she has guys flirting with her all the time, and all she hangs out with are guys. i trust her 100% of the time because its a neccesity and i know she wouldnt cheat on me. but i reach a point where i dont know what to do anymore, it's so hard not getting jelous when your girlfriend can get any guy she wants and it starts to make you wonder why shes with you. i love her so much and we have been fighting lately im undecisive on what i should do because she truly means a lot to me.
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reader, emericaskates +, writes (17 March 2010):
emericaskates is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks i have realized that it she also values my opinion and that i should be more open to sharing it with her and being open about my emotions.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (17 March 2010):
You are pushing her away because of this. She will start to think you don't love her. The fact is, no matter how many men flirt with her, she is with YOU. That's all you ever have to remember. Of all the men, she is with you. That's it. You don't need to be jealous, because there is nothing to be jealous of. She loves you and is with you and that is all that matters.
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