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writes:Sorry if this takes to long right so I broke up with my ex now for 9 months she was my first ever girlfriend I lost my v to her ect we was together for 18 months since we broke up all I have been doing is flirting with other girls and meeting them my emotions are all over the place but recently I have been talking to this girl called s and we have been talking for around 2 weeks now none stop we get along really good we make each other smile bit I haven't met her in person she lives in the same village as me but a year younger then me we snap chat each other a lot since my ex she's the only actual girl I have took to and started to like talking to but at the same time I have my ex running through my head this sounds stupid bit when I'm at work I think of dreams of me and my ex of been together again it won't ever happen though I'm so confused on what to do have I still got feeling for my ex after such a long time or am I just been stupid because I actually am starting to like a someone help please
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reader, Charlton181814 +, writes (24 January 2014):
Charlton181814 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you never though of it like that
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reader, BrownWolf  +, writes (24 January 2014):
Stop talking to the new girl until you get over ex. Don't need to hurt her, and make her your ex too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2014): Well, this is easy ... Get back with your ex and be happy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2014): It takes time to completely wipe the thoughts of your first love from your memory. You don't completely forget them, they just move to the back of your mind where they belong.
The old relationship is over. It's goofy wasting all that space in your head on someone that doesn't want you anymore.
When you meet other girls, you feel a little guilty like you're doing something wrong. I know that feeling. You have to get used to the fact that it's okay now.
I broke up with someone too, and recently starting going out with someone. Flirting or showing attraction for other people almost feels like you're cheating on your ex.
She is now your EX-girlfriend. Time to move on.
Once you get used to how nice this new girl is; and how refreshing it is to talk to someone new, the ex fades out of your mind.
You're single now. It's time to start meeting people who can help you get over the memory; and start focusing on what you want for a change. When the ex starts pushing her way into your head, just push her out.
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