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Sick of being left out!

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Question - (17 March 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 18 March 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Okay, so the title says it all.

In my group of friends, I am the only one without a partner. Many of them are together within the group!

My best friend has been seeing a guy for over a year, and my other friends are well past the six month mark.

I'm always left out, even when my friends aren't with their partners, as all they do is talk about them!

I find it really hard to talk to them anymore, because honestly, I'm getting depressed by it all.

I seem to lack the ability to attract a guy, ((probably due to looks T_T, I have acne .)) So it doesn't help when people say "If you can't beat em, then join em!"

What can I do to stop feeling so left out?

I've asked them to tone down the amount they talk about their partners, but they refuse to as they are "In love!"

Any help would be appreciated.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2011):

I've tried alsorts of things for my skin, nothing works, to be honest, I've accepted the fact that I'm gonna have it for a while longer,

and its fairly hard to make new friends at school, unfortunatly in my school we have the typical 'clique' problem and unfortunatly talking to someone outside of your clique is very very hard, I've tried to talk to someone from another group before but got ignored and laughed at.

Thankyou for replying to my question!

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A female reader, angelDlite United Kingdom +, writes (17 March 2011):

angelDlite agony aunthi

can you make new friends? ones that will take time to try to understand how you feel and not just disregard you by being too busy talking about their boyfriends.

are you doing anything to resolve your acne? see your GP - it CAN be cured and the sooner the better to avoid scarring. when you get a boyfriend i am sure you will want to talk about him a lot! you will then understand where your friends are coming from :)

xx

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