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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Im 19 years old and my boyfriend is 38 years of age. I met him when i was 17. He used to live in london but he recently (5 months ago) moved to Berlin, Germany due to his job. Obviously my family and freinds dont know anything about him, and his dont either. He has two kids, an 11 year old and a 14 year old. We still want to be together, but due to the seperation we cant. Im in my 1st year at Uni and he has no intention of coming back to london (he loves berlin and he loves his job). I dont know what to do. Its killing me not being able to tell anyone about him or ask for advice. Should i let him go even though i love him? I know he cares for me, but with him being away, im not happy and im lonely. What should i do? I dont know whether i should or not.Should i move on or tell him how i feel so we can work it out somehow?Thank you
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reader, LLindy87  +, writes (10 August 2010):
 I think you should move on. Do you really want a boyfriend you can't tell anyone about? The age gap is pretty wide and both of you are at different places in your life. My advice is that you move on, he's in a different country, you can't tell anyone about him, what exactly would you get out of it if you stuck with him? Could you marry him eventually?
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