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writes:Theres this guy, that I love. And he told me he loved me too, and the problem is this was what he said before we starting dating. We were together for a month, and that was a hard thing because his parents didn't like me, so I did not get to see him, but he said it was working out. Then we got into this huge fight. And he started lying. After he broke up with me, mind you he hung up in my ear, I was really upset. He said it was all because I cause to much ''drama''. But that was a lie. A couple days later he texted me,said he was sorry and that he wanted to be friends. Of course I said no at first, But he said the reason he did it was because his friend said too, or he would not be his friend. So I belived him, and was his friend. I was a little mad at his friend though so I asked him what was going on, and why he said that. But his friend never said that and I was mad because he lied again. He texted me a few minutes after that saying he lied , and he was sorry, he just needed an excuse. So mad as I was I told him not to talk to me. But before I said goodbye for good, I asked him why he really did it. He told me this , A girl has kissed him. And so he dumped me because he didn't want to lie , or hurt my feelings..? But he did lie , and I ended up getting hurt anyway. So he tells me he's sorry and would like to be friends but it's my choice and he will respect what I choose. He also tells me he loves me, and wants to wait till I am older to date, so his mother could not say anything. But what should I do? I do love him, But I can't take another lie. And he says he loves me, but after hurting me I don't know if I can belive it anymore.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2010): He's a liar. He lied repeatedly about the same issue until he realized he HAD to tell the truth. You don't want to be with him. Move on. You have so much time to find someone wonderful, and I just know you will.
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reader, natalie_X  +, writes (15 September 2010):
 Honestly it seems to me that he is causing more drama than anything. And drama is not worth anyone's time! He lied to you about so many things that you'll never know whether he is actually telling the truth or not!
And him telling you that you have to be older to date because of his parents is a total cop-out. He really just wants to see other girls and not get in trouble for it.
My advice?
Wait for a guy who treats you perfect and doesn't lie, because all the lying does is result in a faulty relationship.
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