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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I dated a guy for about 2 weeks, but we hung out before that for a while. He always said he wouldn't never cheat on me because he cared about me too much. Then one night he stopped texting me, and I was at home missing him. The next day he texed me I think you have to break up with me, and I asked why, and he said I kinda made out with another girl, don't be mad but say what you need to say. I called him, and asked him if I stayed with him, if he would ever do it again, he said I can't guarantee I wouldn't. Then I said It's over. The next day I called him and harrassed him, and texting him saying that I deserve an apology in person. This went on for two days, but he never did come up and say sorry. So one friday night I went by his house to see if he could talk. He saw my car and called me a stalker. Then my friend talked to him, about it and he said bad things about me. So then even though, I was pretty much in love with him I acted like it didn't matter, and I was over it. Then in the hallways when I walked passed him his head would follow and turn watching me and he kept looking at me with this sad expression, and then tryed to show off with one of his friends and I kept acting like I didn't care. He would purposly go out of his way for me to see him, but he never would say anything. I did tell all of my friend's that he cheated on me and he did hear about how bad of a guy he was for a while, and how much I was over him and hated him. I told him I deserve better. Now for about a week he has been trying to get my attention, but he never has come up and talked to me, maybe out of fear? He is always going out of his way to walk by me in the hallways, and he flirts with other girls and then looks at me to see if I'm noticing or getting jealous? He looks at me a lot, but pretends he doesn't. Then yesterday he was voted vice president for his grade. And he stole my friends phone and texed me saying "ha bob (that's him) got vp for his grade!!!! hahaha" obviously trying to make me want him back or something. Now it is summer, and I won't see him in school anymore. I still really like him, and care about him a whole bunch, even though I made it look like I didn't. He obviously still likes me, or he would not be trying to get my attention all the time. I think I fell in love with him, and I wouldn't mind the hurt of breaking up if we could get back together again. I think it's his pride that is keeping him from talking to me. I have been dressing really hot, and I think he is noticing, and so are his friends, but now he won't see me. We have both made mistakes with this relationship, and I want to try it again. How long should i wait to text or call him? Does it seem like he still likes me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2010): There is nothing you can do at this point but allow time to help you heal...there is not quick fix to getting over someone. That's the downside to giving your heart to or falling in love with others.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThat's what I keep telling myself but I can't get over him. And I feel bad about the way I have handled the situation. I don't know what to do.........
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2010): He cheated and talked bad about you behind your back....DON'T TEXT, DON'T WAIT ON HIM AND DON'T ALLOW HIM TO USE YOUR LIFE AS A REVOLVING DOOR TO COME AND GO AS HE PLEASES.
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