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writes:Every few weeks I go and visit my brother who's away at college. When I first met his roommate I felt this attraction to him. One day when I was there my brother had to go to work so it was me and his roommate. At first we watched some tv then one thing lead to another then we started to make up. After an hour we had sex. Once we were done i got dressed and wiated for my brother to come back. I feel bad about not telling my brother about what happened. Should I tell him or still keep it from him.
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reader, localaura2011 +, writes (20 February 2011):
localaura2011 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell I just found out i'm 2 months pregnant with "Bobby's " baby. He's really excited and want me to get a place with him as soon as we can. I know we need to tell my brother now before we take another step (Bobby isn't his real name)
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2011): You should, so you won't feel bad. I did the same thing.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (19 February 2011):
 I'd probably tell him, because his roommate is certainly going to end up opening his mouth. It should come from you first, I suppose. I'm sure your brother is not going to be happy about it at all, but better you telling him than him having to find out from your roommate talking about his encounter with the guys at the bar. Best of luck!
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reader, Holli'  +, writes (19 February 2011):
 Hiya,It's not like your keeping it from him, it's only his roomate not his lover. He doesn't need to know about your sex life hun, I wouldn't bother it's not like he's gonna ask. If you want to go out with his roomate, prehaps drop hint to your brother like (his roomates name) is good looking? - thats just an example. :)Hope this helped
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reader, Capri2  +, writes (19 February 2011):
This is a hard one. I would say that it depends on whether his roommate is her friend too. Which is more likely. Then the question could be changed into "should I tell him I had sex with his friend?"Yes. You have to tell your brother you had sex with his friend. Chances are he won't take it easy. But in the end it should be not big deal. He will end up knowing about this, certainly. And he will be angry if he learns it that way.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2011): I think there is only a need to tell him if you want something else or more with his room mate, like a relationship... however if you feel guilty about it and really feel the need to tell him. Then you should, otherwise it'll be in the back of your mind at all times, which you don't want. Hope that helps
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