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*yheadhurts
writes:I have been in an 8 year relationship with a man and he has dumped me over and over again so he could go sit out at the lake all summer without feeling guilty.He has promised me twice that we would move in together, then has literally put me and my kids in a position with nowhere to live. He wants kids and i feel bad we didnt have any, but he kept coming back because he was attatched to mine. My youngest was 8 when he came around, and both became very close. My son is now 17, so he has been around a longtime.Heres my big problem: He is a drunk and druggie and i have found out that he has been drugging with my kid since he was 14 yrs old, and the last year it was really out of control. My 45 year old boyfreind decided he was going to quit his alcohol and drugs and basically has kicked my son out of his life. He allowed my son to get bombed everyday. You see I trusted this man with my youngest son because my oldest was beaten in a home invasion and put in a coma for 4 months. The last 4 years of my life was helping my brain injured son recover. Its like this man thinks we were only good enough to be around while he was drunk and stoned and the minute he sobbered up, we were loosers in his eyes. He said he stayed because he pitied me, and all along he was looking for someone else. So just recently, we were making plans to move into his new house with him and he dropped the bomb that this once again was over. He called me incompetent, and basically a loser because the situation with my injured son has basically kicked my ass all the way around. Im not incompetent, i gave up my life for my son, put myself through 4 years of university, We survived on peanuts etc. Now we are garbage and this really hurts. His family doesnt know what has all happened in 8 yrs as far as him on dating sits and porn sites, dumping me and crawling back. I look like the evil one that has drivin him away. Should i tell someone in his family my version if it will assist me in getting over this. I think someone needs to know about how he used my son as a druggie partner from ages 14-17. Advice anyone?
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reader, StudentOfLife +, writes (10 August 2008):
 Be a problem solver, not a problem multipliyer.
Don't try to look better by degrading someone else. The only one you're fooling is yourself.
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reader, bluntasaspoon  +, writes (10 August 2008):
 yeah go to the police
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