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*heridan
writes:hi, I'm 22 and broke-up from my longterm gf a few weeks ago as she was cheating on me and i found out she started going out with the lad she had cheated on me with. 2 weeks ago it ended between them and shes textin me wanting to be my friend but she has stopped texting me.I'm tryin to work out whether i should tell her to leave me alone but i love her to bits and dont want to upset her and im scared of never finding anyone else as im a very shy guy. Can anyone help ? plz
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reader, sheridan +, writes (13 January 2008):
sheridan is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhi all you people that helped me thanks started the new year by not speakin to the ex gf and so far doing well just wish i could forget her alltho recently spoke to her dad who said tha all miss me comin round which didn't help and also started talking to a old mate who lives 2 doors away from my ex been invited round a few time but im not shore if i could be strong anoth to walk past the house i had so many happy memorys can anyone help ?
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reader, brooke5426 +, writes (30 December 2007):
 You did the right thing by breaking up with her. You'll find someone better, it hurts right now cos you're not over her but one day all of this will be exactly a year ago and you'll be over it, probably with someone new and amazing and glad that this little witch is out of your life and not messing up your head. well done you for being strong enough to leave her. i always have crazy amounts of respect for people who can leave someone they love, its not easy but you really are doing the right thing. hang in there it will only get easier. sounds like she's lost a really good guy who cared about her, all you've lost is a liar and a cheat.
she cheats on you and started going out with someone else then thinks she can come running back to you when it ends with him? she's not worth the stress. look forward to meeting your next girlfriend, you deserve a lot better than your ex.
good luck
brooke
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reader, Sweet-thing +, writes (30 December 2007):
 You should probably muster up the courage to tell her to take a hike. She is using you as her "safety net" now that her fling guy fell through and she's alone again and desperate to be with someone. Don't let her trap you again. She neither loves or respects you, she is just afraid of being alone. You on the other hand will only get hurt again because once she finds another guy who's hotter, more attractive, or makes better money, she will cheat again and you'll be devastated.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2007): Yes most deffinately!
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