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writes:Hello I've been seeing this girl for a couple weeks but we're not official. Should I still continue seeing her if she might be also seeing another guy? I think she is an amazing girl and she thinks I'm amazing. She has a best guy friend who just told her he has feelings for her and she told me she's not sure if she feels the same but she wants to figure it out. Since he is a friend of hers she told him about me like she's seeing me and stuff. So how should I handle this? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell I didn't handle the situation that good cause I was kinda insecure and pushed things a bit maybe push her into his arms :( . She said today before she started to ignore me that she and him talked yesterday and she said she likes him and that there gonna talk more about it this weekend. I regret how I acted the last couple days. I just want to make things right.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (3 August 2012):
 This is your decision as well as hers. Do you want to become exclusive with her? This is a bit of a "next step" in your relationship. If you want her to yourself, you're wanting to commit to exclusivity. If that's the case, you'll have to tell her to choose. Then stop seeing her until she's made her choice. It might go your way, but it might not.
She wants to figure that out, and that is fair, but it wouldn't be right to get physical with her at the same time she's getting physical with another man. That's a bit crowded, no matter what "The bachelorette" reality TV says.
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