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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:Hi everyone, there is this guy that I like and have liked for a long time. We talk and flirt with each other but it never goes beyond that. I really want us to be in a relationship, but I don't think he has ever thought if me in any way other than that girl that he flirts and jokes around with. I have liked him since 8th grade.. I am going into 11th grade now. I mean I have liked other guy also but I have always had a little bit of a crush on him no matter what. I just want to know if I am being too clingy and I should just give up on him, or should I keep trying to catch his attention in hope that he may realizes how I feel about him, or should I try and make the first move?Any and all responses will be greatly appreciatedThanks a bunch XOXO
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reader, wolfred bane  +, writes (4 August 2012):
 If you like him let him know. There are plenty of guys who can't read even the most obvious signs , and there's nothing stopping you from making the first move. Good luck !
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reader, no nonsense Aidan  +, writes (3 August 2012):
If you want to take things further, make the first move. In reality, you can carry on giving him clues but there’s no way of knowing that he’s getting the hint. It’s far better to be upfront about your feelings than try and make others guess because some people just aren’t great at reading the signs. Have a private moment with him and tell him what you want, tell him how much you like him and see what he says. Ask him how he feels. Be gracious if you don’t get the answer you were hoping for. It’s a hard thing to do, of course. But it’s the only way to truly find out where you stand and make him understand how you feel.
I wish you all the very best.
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