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Should I forget about him all together?

Q.   i am not sure about how to propose a guy who is very much studious and not in too much of girl friend boy friend matter. i dont understand should i continue with him as friends and forget about love and all that or should i try to speak to him.i ...

A.   29 October 2009: Grab the bull by the horns and talk to him see if there is anything between you both if you dont and he gets snapped up you may regret not taking a chance... (read in full...)

How can I show her we belong together?

Q.   me and my ex were together for 2 years and broke up bout 3 months ago. she wanted to get back together and i didnt want to and she said she would wait to work things out. then she get another boyfriend which made me jealous. so i wanted to get back ...

A.   29 October 2009: I wouldnt take on board what other people have said it'll only cause more confusion than there is already, you need to talk to her directly to see if there's anything between you.... (read in full...)

Should I practice patience or tell him how I feel?

Q.   Hey, Okay so two years ago my mum made this friend and it was just a coincidence that she had four kids two of which are the same ages of me and my sister (both boys).The moment i met my mum's friends son i was very attracted to him when i met him,...

A.   29 October 2009: Best thing you can do is talk to him tell him how you feel and find out how he feels about you...you wont know unless you ask... (read in full...)

He said he can't trust me... what do I do?

Q.   I recently just broke up with my boyfriend. We were dating for a year and a half and were very serious we even moved to another state together FL. We had a lot of trust issues in our relationship. In the beginning of our relationship we were madly ...

A.   29 October 2009: Well like you said there were trust issues at the start of your relationship so it didnt get off with the best of starts. There seem to be a lot of insecurities on both sides and I think it played a massive part to your distrust for one another. You ... (read in full...)

He says he wants to be friends but is now avoiding me

Q.   Is it a bad thing that I feel as if the guy who wants to stay friends is avoiding me now? We do not have any of the same classes but we pass by every morning and he never says hello anymore. When I asked him out he said he wanted to stay friends but ...

A.   28 October 2009: Yeh, he probably doesnt want to lead you on... however... I do think theres better ways of him conveying this because like you said, you were friends before and im guessing it wasnt easy for you to take that step and ask him. He should be more ... (read in full...)

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