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writes: hey so i have been with my amazing boyfriend around 5-6 months its been so great we really do love each other and i cant imagen my life without him, we get on well but we bicker in a kinda married cuple way and well its fine but now it gotten wrost and he said we arrgue to much and i dont know what to do i love this guy but we both get jelious of each other and today he asked me if he could go out with his friend and a 2 girls that i dont know one of the girls his friend wants to get with but that just leaves the other girl and i dont really know what to say i mean its like a double date surely ?? help some genral life addvice would help , i love this guy and he loves me but we see each other every day and get angry at each other he said we should see each other as much but shouldnt we be able to , like befor Reply to this Question
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (19 September 2012):
 You are young dear…. 5-6 months is not a lot of time…
If you are fighting at 13-15 (like a married couple) and you still are both in school and living with your parents that’s not a good thing…
You say you really do love each other but I think it’s way more one sided that that… I think you think you love him…. And are hoping he feels the same way. But he wants to break up because of the fighting right? He sounds like he might be right.
Jealousy is NOT an emotion that is based on love. LOVE is trusting.. Jealousy is an emotion that is based on insecurity totally.
And yes him going out with his friend and two girls is for sure a double date…
KUDOS to him for being honest and open….
If you are fighting every day then it’s time to be done with the “relationship”
You can’t force it… let him go…
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