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*ilitarychick09
writes:Ok, my daughter's father and I have been broken up for about a year now. Since the holidays are coming up I decided to put all of our differences aside and let my daughter go back home with him.(Recently moved out of state) Now she has never been away from me for more than a day and with all of the violence that is going on I'm debating on whether or not I should let her go. It will be only a week and my mother says that I shouldn't let her go. But, I feel as if we should be better parents since we are not together and come to some agreements with raising our child and the outsiders will have to just accept it, like it or not. Parents, will you please help with this situation. Your responses are greatly appreciated.
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reader, Tigerlily +, writes (25 November 2009):
hang on... I'm confused. What violence around are you refering to? also, you've been broken up for a year but he doesn't have regular visits with his child that last more than a day?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (25 November 2009):
I'm not a parent, but I think your daughter probably needs to know her Dad IF HE CAN BE TRUSTED (not if he can't). You have seen that your daughter will need a reliable Dad. I would suggest that you come to an agreement, but make sure he doesn't let her down. The moment he does, forget him. But you are right to let her see him, because she will need him. I hope he's a reliable man.
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