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female
age
41-50,
*ichymouse
writes:I have been with my boyfriend now for 2 years. He goes out when i am at work and leaves me there stranded ( we only have one vehicle). He is on many dating sites and always changes his password, when he figures i know to much to who (the other women ) he talks to and then lies about everything when he is caught or ignores the issue. He doesn't let them know he is in a relationship and avoids the question when it arises. He gets very upset when i bring up the other women and he just says well if you don't want me here kick me out!!
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (25 August 2008):
 Sweetie, this guy is a User and a Looser - dump him and move on with your life. You dont need to put up with his nonsense and lack of respect for you.
Honeygirl
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (25 August 2008):
He's clearly told you that he's just using you as a house mate with an internet connection.
Why are you even asking us about this? Did you honestly think anyone was going to say "Oh he sounds like he had a poor relationship with his mother, you should give him another chance!" NO!!!
Kick him out, keep your car, be single for a while, find a man. The sniveling excuse for a toad that you live for now should not colour your judgement of real men.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (25 August 2008):
 Well thats what i would do....kick him out!
He isn't a great catch is he. You could do a lot better than an unreliable guy thats trying to cheat all the time.
If he's not happy with your sex life, he should communicate, not look elsewhere.
c xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2008): Some boyfriend you have there!
He clearly doesn't place any value on his "relationship" with you; shows you no consideration in leaving you stranded at work when he uses the car. He's on many dating sites, seeing other women and lies about it.
I think you should take him up on his real motivation which is: he does not want to be in a relationship with you where he has to be committed. He's using you, possibly as a convenient place to live while he does his own thing.
So like I said, yank the rug out from under him and tell him to leave. You don't like it, and you don't deserve or need to put up with him!
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