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writes:I Have This Problem. My Boyfriend Wants To Lick Me Out. But It Was Hard Enough to let him finger me. I'm not scared of Anything but i don't know if to let him do this? or not. i told him my opinion that i think its horrible and harsh on anyone doing it. but he thinks its normal seeing as he wants to do it himself and im not asking him to. i don't know. i dont want it but if he wants to do it,is it right to let him if i feel uncomfertable about it? Reply to this Question
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (25 August 2008):
 I'll agree with the previous advisors below that you are perfectly right to allow only such activity that is within your comfort level. It is your body, period.
However, you may someday learn that oral stimulation is quite pleasurable for you, and if your man enjoys or is willing to do it for your enjoyment, then all will be well. It is actually quite a chore to apply cunnilingus properly, but many men are willing, in order to provide their woman such a usually high degree of pleasure. I would suspect that most women who perform fellatio for their men also find it to be quite a chore, but do so to please them. Meanwhile, you should do and allow only as you please.
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reader, ChiRaven +, writes (25 August 2008):
 If you're uncomfortable because you fear its effects on HIM, you should let him worry about that. If you're uncomfortable about it because you don't want it done to YOU, that's an entirely different story. NEVER do ANYTHING sexually unless you are fully willing to try it out. If you're not ready to try this, then by all means don't do it. Tell him that you're uncomfortable with it. Keep an open mind for the future, but for now stick to your guns. Many couples really enjoy this kind of sexual interaction. But always, the only people who can decide what's right for the two of you are ... the two of you. Don't get pushed into anything.
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reader, Tempz +, writes (24 August 2008):
Its sure that u want to make him happy..
but wait till your ready.
don't have a few drinks and let him get his own way..
wait till you feel comfortable about it.
you may enjoy it in the end.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2008): Everyone is different.
Don't do anything that you are uncomfortable with. Wait until you are ready. It may be that you will hate the idea forever and that is perfectly ok.
Only do what you are completely comfortable with.
Tell him that you would not enjoy it and that you really don't like the thought. Hopefully he will stop pestering you for it and making you feel uncomfortable.
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