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male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Here for your views on the following. I have been in a love triangle being the other forbidden fruit from her boring stale relationship. But she aint left and was particularly nasty too me last time we met face to face prob cos i turned up unannounced and could have got her into trouble but despite that was desperate to see me two days before but her bfriend turned up unexpectedly and she just kept ringing apologising that same night as she really wanted to see me. I think she is having some sort of breakdown wiv her moods and what shes dooing being indifferent almost hating me to being euphoric when i get in touch, she says i play games wiv her head but shes worse!!!. I now have done the only thing i can tactically retreat with her knowing i hope we can still be friends as this aint been fair on either of us and we wont be getting it on while her circs havent changed any more which i have never done before but she has me with me managing to turn it round again. I am a bit down though cos i showered her with attention been textin at least 6 - 12 times a day for about 4 months and she has me too. Im gonna miss that I think she will miss it more though as it was my attention and persistance that she resisted for so long that won her over. The sad thing is before this happened we became friends and agreed we should stay as that cos she was attached but we were both weak and thought we could control it. I wish her well and would still like to be friends if she ultimately chooses him as i believe lifes too short. Do you think her relationship with him will last - she has never cheated before so she obviously likes me a lot. Feels like a game and ive had to play this card to make her choose which i feel bad about. Do you think she can carry on her unhappy relationship forever cos i think this will be tha catalyst for her to end it? an do you think i have been wise in backing off cos she will now miss/respect me more? Please help i'm confused!!!
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reader, kept21  +, writes (30 July 2007):
Hey I believe that you should just step back from the situation. I believe that two things will happen either you will move on or she will realize who she really wants to be in a relationship with. I hope that helps. be blessed and good luck.
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