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writes:Well, it's more like a small gathering at my apartment but I'm not so sure if I should invite my crush over. We work together; however, we never get to hang outside of work. I just wanna get to know him better. However, HE DOES HAVE A GF....So should I invite him? And If I do, does that mean that he thinks I like him by doing that?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2012): Sure, invite him but also invite his girlfriend. That way you don't come off looking desperate or like you have ulterior motives even though you do.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (9 January 2012):
 No no, you don't want just to get to know him better, you are up to no good :).
If you just wanted to get to know him better as a friend, you'd tell him to bring his GF along.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (9 January 2012):
 Never poke a sleeping dog with a stick...are you looking for a huge drama? I can't see why you'd even consider a thing like this. That would be just plain mean and wierd to promote a confrontation for the fun of it.
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (9 January 2012):
 Dont invite him - because you have alterior motives and that is not right. You want to get to know him better because you like him and want to be with him, but he has a girlfriend so this is wrong.
If he was single - then it would be fine to invite him. But because nothing can happen, there is no point getting to know him better is there? The more you get to know him the more you will fall for him, so the harder it will be to stay away and leave him to get on with his life with his girlfriend.
Dont be that girl trying to steal someone elses boyfriend, its really not cool.
I hope this helps and good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2012): If he has a gf and you like him, then no you shouldn't invite him, unless your going to invite his gf with him. You may have a crush on him and want to get to know him better, but it's not a good idea when you know he is in a relationship. Would you want some girl who has a crush on him inviting him to a party if he was your boyfriend? I don't think so. Don't invite him, while he has a gf simply view him as a no go zone, because that is what he is. Enjoy your gathering.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2012): hi,there is no problem in inviting your crush to your party ,its quite fine since u guys are working together,but let me warn you,dont keep your hopes up 4 a relationship since you know he is having GF.and does he know you have a crush on him?if he does how is his take on that.?i thnk getting to know someone is no sin,so get up girl and invite him over.gudluck.
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