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How do you do to get over someone ?

This question has 9 answers by readers of DearCupid.ORG.
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9 March 2009: I just went through a horrible breaking up and I'm not over her yet Seriously i can't take her out of mind !!!! it's driving me crazy What do i do ?!?! I really need helps ...

How do I enjoy masturbating !?!?!

This question has 6 answers by readers of DearCupid.ORG.
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13 February 2009: Well I'm 16 years old and I'm sick of masturbating!!!! It's boring and my girlfriend is not ready for sex yet so I have no choice but masturbation. I really wanna know how do I enjoy myself more? I want to feel better on masturbating, I tried ...

Should I have sex ?

Q.   I'm 17 and a virgin and my ex-girlfriend who is 15 had sex already ! I'm very jealous of her even though she told me that I should wait. She didn't so why would I do so? [Edited by moderator to improve readability]...

A.   15 October 2009: But It dpresses me, she's younger than me though.... (read in full...)

My ex keeps being a bitch to me, What do I do ?

Q.   It sounds stupid but I don't understand why she keeps being so rude and hurtful to me ? I mean she blocked me from msn but still talks to me through her friends. She once show me a picture of her and her boyfriend and she 2 months later told me her ...

A.   24 July 2009: Yes, but it's hard to stop hermessaging me, she keeps using other people's account. I thought she couldn't contact me but she will finally find a way.... (read in full...)

Sex is not inherently special!! Am I right for telling a few dates this???

Q.   For some reason we have put sex in a category of being something "special" that happens between two people. The insane part of that is you are letting someone else define what's special to you. Will you QUIT doing that please? There are no acts ...

A.   30 June 2009: Sorry, English is not my 1st langauge. Hmmm..... What's the English words I'm looking for ? Ahh I found it !!! " Grow up !!!!! Get a life !!!! " The more you have sex with randoms The more you are worthless.... (read in full...)

Why did she show me a photo of her and her boyfriend kissing?

Q.   I recently talked to my ex on facebook and she showed me a picture of her kissing her new boyfriend. Why did she do that ? It's not necessary and she knew it all along that would hurt me. I'm over her I think but I'm jealous that she has a new ...

A.   13 June 2009: Hey ! Thank you all, I don't love her anymore but what she did made me very upset. I don't want her back but I just want to be her friend, that's it. P.S She's brunette too but I'm not really that picky I just like because of no reason, it j... (read in full...)

When did you start dating / when were you allowed to start dating?

Q.   Heyy! I was just wondering, what age did you start dating/were allowed to date?? Because I have had a crush on the same boy (we are both 15) for a few years now, but my mum said that even sixth formers (16-18yrs)only have a boy/girlfriend for a 'f...

A.   11 June 2009: My first official girlfriend is when I was 16 and I think you're ready to start dating because you've had crush on him for a very long time. So all you have to do is relax and I hope you'll be lucky ^^ Good luck........ !!... (read in full...)

Should I have sex at 13?

Q.   i want to have sex with my boyfriend and he wants to as well but we r only 13 is it ok if we did?...

A.   11 June 2009: No !! Don't do it until you're 20, I'm serious.... (read in full...)

19 year old virgin, will guys ever want to be with me?

Q.   please help! I am 19 year old and a virgin. I have had one long term relationship, but have a total lack of experience! Will guys ever want to be with me?...

A.   11 June 2009: What's wrong if you're 19 years old virgin ?... (read in full...)

What goes through your head 1st when you're approached by thai guy in Thailand ?

Q.   Well I always go hanging in many places[Kao san street for example ] in Thailand. I see a lot of cute girls and they're mostly tourists. But I'm always afraid that when I go to them and start the conversation, it is possible that they will think I ...

A.   11 May 2009: I don't really approach tourists because I'm looking for relationship not one or two weeks stand. And It's difficult to divide tourists out of brunette living in Thailand at Kao San road. In the same way the reasons that I don't approach Thai girls ... (read in full...)

Should I have sex ?

Q.   i'm a 15 yo virgin and i want to have sex by two reasons 1. most of my friends say that sex feels very awesome and it's wasting time if i'm a virgin 2. one day i will have a girlfriend but if i find out that she lost her virginity when she was 15....

A.   9 May 2009: Wow....... there's another Thai boy in this site....... I know how you feel. But let me tell you one thing Being her last guys of hers is way better then being her first P.S Don't worry, the way you think and the way you feel is really typic... (read in full...)

Have you also been rejected by girls when you approached them?

Q.   I've been rejected many times and I'm sick of it !!!!!! I was rejected at the school, bars,shopping mall , streets etc. I don't know how to fix it ? When I'm with my friends I'm very outgoing boy but when I approach someone I'm a different person. ...

A.   9 May 2009: My friends said that I should touch her arms or hands but I don't want to do that becuase it's kinda rude, i think.... (read in full...)

Have you also been rejected by girls when you approached them?

Q.   I've been rejected many times and I'm sick of it !!!!!! I was rejected at the school, bars,shopping mall , streets etc. I don't know how to fix it ? When I'm with my friends I'm very outgoing boy but when I approach someone I'm a different person. ...

A.   9 May 2009: When I talk I don't know where to put my hand because I get nervous and I freak out. thanks anyway... (read in full...)

She's had sex with possibly 30 plus guys and I have issues with it!

Q.   Hi everybody Me and my girlfriend have been dating for almost 5 months now. Im 20 and she's 23. I seem too keep on having an issue with her past. She's had sex with around 30 guys. Could be more. I myself have been with 17 girls, and as such I a...

A.   9 May 2009: If i were you, I'd dump her. Good luck, Dude !!... (read in full...)

We passed 100,000 questions published on DearCupid

Q.   Today is another milestone in DearCupid history: Over 100,000 questions (100,020 as I write this) have been published! Wow. Thanks to the aunts, the moderators and everyone who shares their problem. As always any ideas on how to improve the s...

A.   9 May 2009: I would not be surprised if there's going to pass 1,000,000 questions. : ) Congratulation !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!... (read in full...)

Do guys take rejection to heart?

Q.   do guys take rejection to heart.becasue a guy asked me out and i said no.this was few years ago.and i meet him recently and he still mad at me becasue i said when he asked me.i actually did like the guy but i didn,t know if he saw me as friend or ...

A.   7 May 2009: Yes, It's very very hurt... (read in full...)

What goes through your head 1st when you're approached by thai guy in Thailand ?

Q.   Well I always go hanging in many places[Kao san street for example ] in Thailand. I see a lot of cute girls and they're mostly tourists. But I'm always afraid that when I go to them and start the conversation, it is possible that they will think I ...

A.   7 May 2009: I don't know how to join the clubs.... My type is Brunette and I see lots of brunette in Kao San that's why I'm always there. Can you suggest any places ?... (read in full...)

What goes through your head 1st when you're approached by thai guy in Thailand ?

Q.   Well I always go hanging in many places[Kao san street for example ] in Thailand. I see a lot of cute girls and they're mostly tourists. But I'm always afraid that when I go to them and start the conversation, it is possible that they will think I ...

A.   7 May 2009: No I havn't........ I don't know where a lot of cute girl is but Kao san... (read in full...)

What goes through your head 1st when you're approached by thai guy in Thailand ?

Q.   Well I always go hanging in many places[Kao san street for example ] in Thailand. I see a lot of cute girls and they're mostly tourists. But I'm always afraid that when I go to them and start the conversation, it is possible that they will think I ...

A.   7 May 2009: Thank you very much... Yes I was there with my friends and They're white guys too. They really support me. but I think I wasn't confident enough.... (read in full...)

What goes through your head 1st when you're approached by thai guy in Thailand ?

Q.   Well I always go hanging in many places[Kao san street for example ] in Thailand. I see a lot of cute girls and they're mostly tourists. But I'm always afraid that when I go to them and start the conversation, it is possible that they will think I ...

A.   7 May 2009: Hi ! How do you do ? Good... Would you mind if I'd like to talk to you ? No.... How old are you ? 18 Where are you from ? London How long have you been here ? since Saturday What are you doing in Thailand ? Nothing...... BYE ......... (read in full...)

What goes through your head 1st when you're approached by thai guy in Thailand ?

Q.   Well I always go hanging in many places[Kao san street for example ] in Thailand. I see a lot of cute girls and they're mostly tourists. But I'm always afraid that when I go to them and start the conversation, it is possible that they will think I ...

A.   6 May 2009: I tried approaching for about 20 women last night And all they said is "No thanks, BYE " What did I do wrong ?... (read in full...)

How to flirt someone in person?

Q.   Hi everyone I see a lot of Caucasian girls in Bangkok especially in the shopping mall. some of them look cute and I really want to start talking to them. But the problems are that someone comes with their parents and I'm afraid to talk to them beca...

A.   19 April 2009: No They're not my type and They think the same way of me. ... (read in full...)

How to flirt someone in person?

Q.   Hi everyone I see a lot of Caucasian girls in Bangkok especially in the shopping mall. some of them look cute and I really want to start talking to them. But the problems are that someone comes with their parents and I'm afraid to talk to them beca...

A.   19 April 2009: Thank you Kellyxx and It's okay What about people who are not in holiday ? ... (read in full...)

15 and never been kissed by a boy!

Q.   hey, ok i have a problem with myself. i am really slim but my mom is really slim aswell so it kind of runs in the family. no i am not anorexic and i don't have a eating disorder, i eat like a pig infact and just comfort eat but i dont know where it ...

A.   16 April 2009: I 1st kissed at 16 and I'm still alive and especially if you want to 1st kiss with someone, do it with one you really love.... (read in full...)

Are one-night stands really the norm?

Q.   I have a bad feelings about one night stands. I see that many people have had one night stands in their lives which I think is very slutty to me. If I had a girlfriend I wouldn't be with a girl who has had one night stands because I want someone who ...

A.   15 April 2009: It's something I noticed with age of 16 years old or older. And thank you everyone for giving me good advices. ^^... (read in full...)

Are one-night stands really the norm?

Q.   I have a bad feelings about one night stands. I see that many people have had one night stands in their lives which I think is very slutty to me. If I had a girlfriend I wouldn't be with a girl who has had one night stands because I want someone who ...

A.   15 April 2009: Thank you, Fiona. I've learned something form you. And I forgot to tell you that I'm 16... (read in full...)

Virginity, boys, love, lust and lost!

Q.   Well I feel like I can't get someone. People say I'm pretty but I'm not and I know and they know. I don't know what to do because I feel like burying my head. I'm still a virgin at 17 and my ex already lost his. I feel like it's a competition but ...

A.   12 April 2009: Heyy I also have the similar story. Well I'm 16 years old virgin and I want to keep it to a girl I really love. Sex is something I really want but I wish I can wait for the right person. And I'm also trying to get over it too. Don't give up... (read in full...)

Avoiding seeing girls in bikinis!

Q.   I'm freaking out everytime when i see girls in the bikini !! I could be embrassing me but the reaction of what my ex gf did to me is that im freaking out everytime when i see girls in bikini even on TV. I dont know if im overreacting but...

A.   9 April 2009: Wearing bikini is against Thai culture and popularity P.s Thank you all for the answer ^^... (read in full...)

How do you do to get over someone ?

Q.   I just went through a horrible breaking up and I'm not over her yet Seriously i can't take her out of mind !!!! it's driving me crazy What do i do ?!?! I really need helps ...

A.   11 March 2009: Thank you everyone !! At least people here know how my feelings are ... (read in full...)

How do I enjoy masturbating !?!?!

Q.   Well I'm 16 years old and I'm sick of masturbating!!!! It's boring and my girlfriend is not ready for sex yet so I have no choice but masturbation. I really wanna know how do I enjoy myself more? I want to feel better on masturbating, I tried ...

A.   25 February 2009: Thank you all for advicng !!!... (read in full...)

Would you date a girl with this sexual past?

Q.   She is perfect in looks for you, perfect in personality for you! She is 21 years old (just imagine that is the perfect age for you lol), KNOW 100% she would never cheat on you, EVERYTHING is perfect for you. But..... She lost her virginity at 14...

A.   14 February 2009: There's a lot of virgin girls in this world. If u can't handle it just say no because if u keep this thing running in your mind it won't be good for your relationship. Make your own CHOICE. ... (read in full...)

We are different religions... can it ever work?

Q.   My boyfriend is amazing, sweet, perfect and almost everyting a girl can ask for but I know that my parents won't approve as he does not follow the same religion as me. He's told his parents and we're really close but I know my parent's will be angry ...

A.   30 January 2009: I think it can work !! i'm buddhist but my gf is catholic but we don't have any problems about religions i know what the feeling is and we went through that thing easily. there's nothing to worry about just enjoy the moment.... (read in full...)

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