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Should I go back or move forward in my life?

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Question - (11 November 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 11 November 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I think i may still be in love with my high teacher. For some reason its like i cant move on and go through college without feeling like something is missing. I am not the type of girl that will cry over this or be depressed i just want to go back and say something to him. I have no idea if he even felt the same way about me when i was in highschool because we got along in 11th grade great and i would always catch him looking at me or he would always flirt. Sometimes if we looked at one another it would be for a while not like staring(i dont think) but more like a sort of wonder. Maybe i am reading his signlas wrong and just want something to be there.

I am comflicted on whether i should go back and start over with him since this friendship we had basically was lost during 12th grade year. For some reason i felt guilty about the way we acted towards eachother from ignoring one another and just having tension between us. I am really confused about my feelings for him, maybe i love him or maybe there was something in him taht i loved and wanted to keep. So my question is do i go back to see if there was something there and start over or could there possibly be something? or should i just forget about it and move on? Thanks alot guys i know you will help me out more than anyone, yours truly petunia

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A female reader, reign154 United States +, writes (11 November 2009):

Hi, petunia.

Now i dont know you personally but i can see what you are going through. I think that you should just follow what you think is best. If you want to go back then do it and dont expect the worst or best things to happen when you do becasue sometimes it may not always end up that way. You shouldnt be coming here for advice on what you should do because you already know the answer. So its your choice to go back or not. Just remember that this will fade with time and you wont even remember this teacher you think you have feelings for. So good luck in which ever you choose and dont let anyone tell you different.

Yours truly,

Reign

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A male reader, Denizen United Kingdom +, writes (11 November 2009):

Denizen agony auntIt is always a mistake to go back.

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