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51-59,
*ia cara
writes:iv been seeing a guy for little while now and he wants me exclusive but he has a girlfriend of 1 yr who he only sees once a fortnight and said hes just waiting till hes been on holiday with the kids with her as he promised them .i really like him as he is first guy to turn my head in 10 yrs and dont want to give him up,but think im getting in too deep should i give him up now or wait till holiday is over with?
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reader, Carrot2000  +, writes (13 May 2010):
 If he's only been with his girlfriend for a year, there really is no reason why he can't end the relationship; it's not like he has invested a lot of time here. If he was truly decent, he would end the relationship before going on holiday. He chooses, instead, to continue to deceive his girlfriend and her kids, allowing them to think everything is okay and THEN pulling the rug out from under them.
He's heartless.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (13 May 2010):
This is a real mistake. He's basically a cheat, and this is a man you can't trust. At all. You'd do better to pull well away from him. You won't ever really be able to trust him. After all, if he's cheating on one girlfriend after just a year, how long until he does it to you?
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (13 May 2010):
 If you think he is worth it , you can wait till his holiday is over. A promise is a promise and he has to fulfill it. Give him some slag.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (13 May 2010):
 Let him go and let him finish whatever business he has first. You dont need his mess on your doorstep. Once he's single you can date him again and test out a relationship.
By the way though, he comes off as a sneaky person if the only reason he's with her now is to get a vacation. Is he so broke that he can't pay his own ways and does he really need this vacation that badly? Something smells fishy to me and he might just be filling your head with excuses. Stay alert!
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reader, bruce lee  +, writes (13 May 2010):
 I would get in contact with the other woman and ask her what she thinks about the whole situation. Create a bit of embarrassment for him. It sounds like he is using you up. I don't think he loves you. You should have nothing to do with him.
I hope this advice helps. Thanks for your question. It has been enlightening.
Where does he get the nerve to have 2 girlfriends in his life and expect everyone to be happy about it?!
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