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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I have been in love with this guy for over a year now. He knows about my feelings for him. We talked about it and he said he wasn't sure about how he feels and that he didn't want to get into a relationship that he wasn't sure he could fight for. We're "friends" right now. We hang out and talk about our common interests and stuff. But in a few weeks, we will be graduating from college and I'm not sure if I will ever see him again in the future. Despite being friends, he isn't the type who would first reach out for me. I know he won't text or call me or ask how I'm doing. I know he wouldn't even make an effort to look for me. I don't feel that he even cares about me. I feel that he thinks that I only have a crush on him. I think he doesn't know that I really have strong feelings for him. I want to write him a letter and give it on graduation day, saying that although I know it wouldn't change anything and although I know that he doesn't really care about me, I want him to know that I love him...But I'm not sure if he even deserves to know this. I'm having doubts if I should give him the letter knowing that he won't even care anyway. So, should I still give it to him? By the way, I'm 19 and he is my first crush ever (yes, i'm a late bloomer) and my first love as well.
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reader, R1  +, writes (14 April 2013):
 Personally I wouldn't give him the letter. If you want to tell him how you feel you should do it in person and be prepared for rejection. Boys come and go and you will meet the right one soon enough.
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