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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi, I just got out of an extremely self destructive relationship that I was in for 2 years. Now there is this guy who I had dated for about a week in 9th grade. Then I broke up with him and he took it really really hard. Now I'm 17 and we just started hanging out again. he really wants to be my boyfriend, but I told him I don't know what I want yet. He texts me probably over 25-30 times a day. The real problem however, is that he is really insecure and doesn't really have ANY friends of his own. He has no sense of style or wit. He really can't even make a joke...But he likes me SOOOO much and he is such a caring, considerate, mellow guy who will do anything to avoid fighting. This is what I was looking for after I broke up with my ex a month ago. For 2 years I dealt with an emotional roller coaster with my ex and I feel like I should be attracted to someone who actually treats me with respect.Do you think I will get used to it in time? Or will this stuff continue to bother me until I stop hanging out with him?
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reader, shiraz  +, writes (5 October 2008):
hiyah, you need to be careful although it might not seem that serious i think this guy is obsessive, he could have a real problem, you need to be aware of this.hes very insecure and i think by leaving him you are going to damage him but honestly i think its best for you. let go now and move on. its going to hurt him but he will move on i think he needs a wake up call, theres more to life than what hes seeing. i think after all youve been through emotionally you could do with a break too i dont mean off men completely just have some fun but not get to involved too deep. i think you need a fresh in order to become yourself again. be careful how you go about getting rid of this guy hope this has helped let me know how it goes x :)
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