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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and I have a young child together, we split up 2 years ago during which time alternate weekends were agreed for shared parenting. Since getting back together this year we live apart and I have tried to arrange dates and asked him for us to go out and spend adult time together, he won't stick to anything and he won't take me out but happy to sleep with me. It's turned into a casual situation with him and I feel like a convenience for him. I have told him how I feel and he walks away, I do love him but this is a dissatisfying situation and there's no effort or romance with our relationship - however he is a dedicated dad but he is a swift second priority which elimates time for us. I have tried everything to show him we need time together alone and am getting nowhere but I know he loves me. I am currently keeping my phone turned off, any advice please
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2008): These are not the actions of a person who is in love with you. Please quit giving him sex. If you're feeling like a "convenience" to him, then you probably are.Move on and find a more romantic guy....
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