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Should I find my wife a younger man to have sex with?

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Question - (28 March 2012) 4 Answers - (Newest, 29 March 2012)
A male United States age , *irgifarmer writes:

i have trouble having sex for sometime and now my wife is not interested in sex she says its the mediciene she is taking should i find her a younger man to have sex with to satisfy her needs she has been patient but im afraid she will want sex again? is this out there i would be ok with it she had other partners she did before we were married anyway

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (29 March 2012):

Tisha-1 agony auntIf my husband proposed this as a solution to a 'problem' that didn't exist for me, I'd worry that he had some other medical issues.

As long as you are still being physically close with her, through holding her and maintaining contact by hand-holding, hugs, spooning, those types of activities, I expect she's satisfied.

Most women do not have to have penile penetration in order to enjoy orgasms.

I would instead ask her how you two can remain close and connected and see if she has any feedback for you. She knows better than we do what her 'needs' might be.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (29 March 2012):

Honeypie agony auntThere are other ways to please a women them penile penetration....

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (29 March 2012):

DoubleM agony auntThis sounds extreme. If it ain't broke, don't try to fix it.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (28 March 2012):

So_Very_Confused agony auntyour wife says she's not interested due to her medications, why would you want to find her someone else?

Have you been to the doctor for a medical work up

often men with erection problems can take medications or make lifestyle changes to help.

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