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writes:5 Months ago I thought I found the guy I wanted. He was exactly everything I praid for head, body, and soul. I thought we were a match made in heaven. He was also the first guy I ever dated. He said he loved me and I loved him. We live 40 minutes apart so we didn't see each other every single day. We texted and talk. Well this month I received a call. He said he only wanted to be friends. That broke my heart and broke me down. I thought things were great. I wanted him so much and he was saying he wanted me. He said we stay too far apart. I was mad I was like(you knew our location difference from day 1 and you wanna lead me on like this) we don't even stay for 40 MINUTES. Neither of us had our own place but I was still willing to anything to make it work. He said he still likes and love me. I begged and cried for weeks. He just ignores me most time but we still talk a little. Well over this month I found another guy. Im really liking him and he likes me but I told him lets still take it slow. I'm not ready to jump in yet. I kinda over my ex but I have these back flashes seeing his pics and his Facebook (he hurt me so bad) recently I dropped back into a sad stage to where I'm asking and begging him to be with me again. Luckily the guy I'm friends with now calms me down and makes me like him more. But lately I been thinking. Should I fight for my relationship or should I move on?
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reader, mooh  +, writes (21 November 2012):
Forget about your ex! If he broke up because of a 40mins distance he didn't have strong feelings for you. Someone in love would have tried to bring up solutions if the 40mins was that bothersome instead of breaking up right away (40mins is not that long either. If it was a LDR in a different country etc, that would have been a different matter, but 40 mins away only... come on...) .
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reader, Anonymous 123  +, writes (20 November 2012):
 Move on! This one is a no-brainer! The guy dumped you without a second thought over something as frivolous as a 40 minutes distance! That's got to be one of the lamest reasons to break up! Its like he needed some reason, any reason in fact, and this was this way out.
Whatever you do, DO NOT beg and plead with him to get back. Its entirely his loss. He doesn't even sound like a good person OP, he didn't have the decency to break up in the right way so he just lied his way through it with the distance thing. He doesn't love you OP and you have to accept that and never look back. He doesn't deserve you.
Un-friend him on Facebook and block him so that you cant see his pics and updates. Remember, out of sight is out of mind. Cut him out of your life and you will move on.
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