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I haven't had sex for ages and my girlfriend is away, My ex comes over tomorrow but I don't want to cheat on my girlfriend... Temptation!!! Help!

Q.   Dear cupid, as i wrote you i had a gf, and we are practically 3 years years together. The past 4 months she lives in other city because of studies. Tomorrow one of my ex comes to my house, and i know we will have sex. But i'm worried about ...

A.   12 February 2010: Well dear readers, i know i'm a idiot that i thaught about it.I didn't see my ex, and everything went well.In the past i was manipulated by my ex,she is very beautifull and i was like a puppy dog for her.Thanks for your advices and good luck.... (read in full...)

He gives me higher grades than the others and that makes me feel good...

Q.   Alright. So the question isn't does he like me, I already know that one of my teachers this year does. I have no interest in him for the record. He's a middle aged man, around 45-50 would be my guess and he's married with I thhink 3 daughters. He's ...

A.   11 February 2010: i'm in university, and we have the same teacher, he likes girls and always can do for them everything:like give them tips or advices for searching information, or giving advices what can should learn for exams etc....but for guys he doesn't do ... (read in full...)

Is he interested in me or just being nice?

Q.   I have been going to a counselor for the past 2 years and can't ask him because he is the one I need advice about. About 2 months ago I developed an interest in him and there are some things he does that makes me wonder if he is interested also. ...

A.   11 February 2010: It's risky, i think he is just beeing professional and kind.And second: if he was interessted he would propose you a cup of cofee long time ago.And if you do think that he likes you, try asking him for a cup of cofee, but in a joke way: if he will ... (read in full...)

I haven't had sex for ages and my girlfriend is away, My ex comes over tomorrow but I don't want to cheat on my girlfriend... Temptation!!! Help!

Q.   Dear cupid, as i wrote you i had a gf, and we are practically 3 years years together. The past 4 months she lives in other city because of studies. Tomorrow one of my ex comes to my house, and i know we will have sex. But i'm worried about ...

A.   11 February 2010: I'm sorry lexie88, but i do feel sorry, maybe i wrote not so tragic.What i ment is tha ti know my ex, of what is she capable of.I admit that i thaught bad things.normally i'm a strong person,but not when it comes to to sex.I never cheated on my Gf ... (read in full...)

I've been dating my man for 2 years and I just want to make him feel extra good for valentines day!

Q.   So my bf and I are long distance, and weather permitting, we'll get to see each other this weekend. I was wondering, what are some ways to make him really horny and satisfied. We have not had penetrative sex yet. Please help! I've been dating my man ...

A.   11 February 2010: did you think of doing to him a stripteese? )) my gf once did me that and i loved it =)... (read in full...)

Should I care what others think?

Q.   Hello dear cupid. I’m with my GF 3 years already, and on Christmas she told me she wants a « heart breakable « jewellery for the both of us. She told me that it would represent our eternal love, and relationship. Well at the beginning I didn’t ...

A.   3 January 2010: Thank you i say really thank you for all your answers :) i think you are wright, the most important is me and my GF and oothers point oppinion doesn't matter... Hope you had a nice happy new year =) ... (read in full...)

Did I cheat on my boyfriend?

Q.   I like my boyfriend alot I mean alot alot. But the other day I was in the dark room a room at my school where you make these pictures you took in photograph class. Anyways so me and this boy "Tom" where in there alone because the bell range and ...

A.   2 January 2010: Hi, grangratulaiton for what you have done, i see you really like your BF, and you aren't a person who accepts cheating.So yes you didn't cheat, but you can tell your BF, that he beets up that guy.I think it's normal to tell things like that, when ... (read in full...)

Shooting Blanks

Q.   My boyfriend is scared he's shooting blanks. He has one brother who is setrile and another who has like super sperm three kids in three years with birth control and condoms super sperm. He's scared that he is shooting blanks which i highly doubt but ...

A.   31 December 2009: yes one solution go t oa doctor=) simple as that))) try to resure him that everything will be ok, and you love him not for his sperm=)... (read in full...)

She didn't like finding out that I had oral sex before her

Q.   Hello dear cupid,i'm new on this website so:i've been with my Gf for 3 years. i'm 23, and she is 22.The problem is that recently she asked me strange questions as: how many Gf did you sleep with, did they all give you blowjobs, did you like it.In ...

A.   30 December 2009: Hello here i am again, well in fact i was too worried.Today my Gf told me the following words: " i thaught about that day and the asnwers that you told me, i was too immature to be angry on you.Because i know it was the past, and now i don't care, i ... (read in full...)

Should I end a happy loving relationship because... he had sex with 3 girls?

Q.   Okay now I know this may sound ridiculously jerkette and dumb, but...I don't want to be in love. But I am. Now yes I am happy because of it but the other side of my mind snarls at the happiness. With my personality, I just do not feel under control, ...

A.   30 December 2009: I think here you have a friend sex partner, because if you don't feel so seriously atached, then you could see other people too. Or if you do feel atached and you love, like, can't leave without him then you should be ready for a break because he i... (read in full...)

How can I get him to cum faster?

Q.   Okay, I recently started hooking up with a boy Ive known for a really long time, and I gave him head the other night. He said it was great and he did cum, but it took him FOREVER. My whole body is sore, my neck the worst. He said that he had alot of ...

A.   30 December 2009: I think there was a question like this befor. You know it depends on the person , may be oral stimulates him but not as much when you are having normal sex.So try just stimulating him and then pass on the second act(i meen sex)... (read in full...)

Should I ask out my cousin?

Q.   Okay, this is a... predicament, so i will remain anonymous for obvious reasons- Here's the story: I recently traveled out of state to visit aunts, uncles, cousins, and so on... I was hanging out with one of my male cousins, when two girls ...

A.   30 December 2009: Well you did right thing to go anonymous, it's really when you read it a strange situation.In fact, i do'nt think someone will advice you: go for it, you saw her once in a lifetime so jump on her.our world is crazy but not at this point, we evoluted ... (read in full...)

Pregnant: yes or no?

Q.   Hi, I am shantha am an indian 33 years old i have irregular period, i took a treatment vide ayurveda. After treatment, past five month i have regular period. last month i missed my period and also i got pregnancy symptoms, like frequent urination, ...

A.   30 December 2009: it's impossible to tell you have or not, you just have to live in fear 10 days till you go again to doctor.Some people here will tell you you might, some would tell you you are ok, and things like that happen.So finally you'll get more worried. D... (read in full...)

Is it wrong to wish he'd just pass away?

Q.   My dad has been a severe alcoholic most of my life. He was emotionally dead when I was a teen and went through a brief point of sobriety when i was in my early 20''s. for the last couple of years, he's cheated death several times. he has survived ...

A.   30 December 2009: it's a tragic story, and he does have problems.And it's normal that you hate, and dislike him.but i can tell you how bad he was, how bad he treated you or your mom try to forgive him.It's difficult i know,but if you'll forgive him now, and try to ... (read in full...)

I need to know all the risks of having sex!

Q.   I know I'm too young. Thats what everybody says. But recently I've met a boy I really love, he loves me too. Trust me you haven't heard him. He wants to have sex with me. Please answer me. With all risks and everything, thank you. :)....

A.   30 December 2009: i think you are too young for that (i think it's something you know and don't want to hear it from me) Well gues again,i'll tell you things that you allready know, boys aren't damaged when having sex in young age, but girls are.I'm tellingyou as a... (read in full...)

At what age do the majority of people settle down?

Q.   At what age do the majority of people settle down at? In a sense of have a relationship that will work and last....

A.   30 December 2009: there no age for a relationship to work, i think a relationship is empiric.You learn by your mistakes, and each time you do better.But our world is crazy, so trust in your slef and you'll find that girl who'll be crazy in love with you.... (read in full...)

She didn't like finding out that I had oral sex before her

Q.   Hello dear cupid,i'm new on this website so:i've been with my Gf for 3 years. i'm 23, and she is 22.The problem is that recently she asked me strange questions as: how many Gf did you sleep with, did they all give you blowjobs, did you like it.In ...

A.   30 December 2009: Thank you for your answers I know that i should have told her, but she is such a person that wants to know.And i gave it a shot satindesire= i told the SAME words to her as you wrote your last phrase! and even more i added:" i told you the trut... (read in full...)

Morning after pill will it affect me if I'm already pregnant?

Q.   i had unprotected sex a a week ago wid my ex and i think i might be pregnant n then i had unprotected sex again monday morning with this guy i was seeing n am thinking of taking the morning after pill tomorrow will it effect me if i am already ...

A.   30 December 2009: The morning after tomorrow pill works only after 48 hours after unprotected sex maximum.so if you had unprotected sex a week ago, you could be already pregnant.So the solution is take pregnancy test, or go to a doctor.Good luck... (read in full...)

Did he get his ideas from a porn movie?

Q.   when me and my boyfriend were having sex the other night, he got on top of me, then started rubbing his penis in between my boobs then stopping to put it in my mouth he kept on doing it, then he cummed all in my mouth and on my boobs, i enjoyed ...

A.   30 December 2009:  marriedlady- i think he saw a new thing and just wanted to try with the person he has a relationship.No more explanation, if she liked it then i think they should continue experementing.... (read in full...)

Did he get his ideas from a porn movie?

Q.   when me and my boyfriend were having sex the other night, he got on top of me, then started rubbing his penis in between my boobs then stopping to put it in my mouth he kept on doing it, then he cummed all in my mouth and on my boobs, i enjoyed ...

A.   30 December 2009: Well i think he just tried something new, is seems great, and be happy for it.But unfortunetly, i think like everybody we do instrunct our selfs elsewhere. Just enjoy, it's kinda cool that he tries something new)... (read in full...)

How do long distance relationships work out?

Q.   So right now im a member of this site where gay or bi guys can chat, share pics, share music... its basically a myspace for dudes only but betta den them otha sites cuz u dont gotta pay nuthin to earn gold memba status or nuthin like dat (btw this ...

A.   30 December 2009: hi, i had a long distance relationship with my GF,i found her on facebook.We met, then separated for 9 months b/c of studies, and she waited and me too, and we live together for 3 years now. One advice, don't go crazy, and one think helped me: don'... (read in full...)

He gets into things and then stops!

Q.   Ok so I've been with my boyfriend for a few months now, and we just starting doing stuff like handjob/fingering. He initiated it by touching me first and while doing that guiding my hand to him so that we were kind of doing the stuff at the same ...

A.   30 December 2009: so as i understood you didn't had sex yet? ... (read in full...)

I think I might have destroyed our marriage!

Q.   I hit my wife over her back with the plastic end of a hoover the other night. We were staying at my dads house in a single bed and had been drinking for a few hours before hand. We were in bed two hours when she ran out of space and hit me in my ...

A.   30 December 2009: Hi,drinking and anger s really a bad thing, but if things already done, just don't watch back go forward.You'll feel guilt for a long time, it's normal, try talking to her, tell her your problems, about anger drinking, at this stage or you go to a ... (read in full...)

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