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Is our relationship a lost cause?

Q.   I've been in my current relationship for a year and a half. I love my boyfriend, but I'm not sure if I should continue to invest in this relationship. Since a few months after we began dating, he has become extremely possessive and has absolutely no ...

A.   3 November 2008: I've been in my current relationship for about he same period of time. Same as you... his true colors came out after I quit my job and moved away with him. He controls every thing from my clothing, my money, when I eat and sleep, and contact with ... (read in full...)

I need as many answers as soon as possible please!

Q.   Do you know what std's causes a person's skin to look yellow or darker? Also what std's cause a heartburn like feeling with stomach pain and also bleeding after periods? What about red spots that appear on the face but don't stay that long?...

A.   3 November 2008: I agree with EVERYONE else. You need to see a physician and have some blood work done. It almost sounds like something is going on with your liver... jaundice, pain in your abdomen, perhaps a vitamin K deficiency (thin blood). This is NOT an S... (read in full...)

My husband wants to make a sex tape!

Q.   My husband (for 3 years) wants us to make a sex tape for his birthday (hes turning 28). We have no kids yet (we're still talking about it). I told him to dream on. I dont want to get out and then everyone will i'm a slut. He promise he'll get a safe ...

A.   1 November 2008: I'm dying to make a sex tape with my husband! The timing just hasn't been right, but it's still on my list of things to do. I actually suggested it to him and he thinks it's so HOT that I want to. We both have very high sex drives and it's ... (read in full...)

Why this feeling of urination in the middle of the sexual act, even while fingering?? May it be female ejaculation?

Q.   Hey this is a really embarrassing question! Ive recently started having sex with my boyfriend and everything is great only for one thing. Everytime we have sex when he goes into me deep i fell the urge to pee. It will not go away and i always have ...

A.   6 April 2008: Your readers are correct. This is a perfectly normal sensation that can occur prior to orgasm or during an orgasm. Don't let it embarass you or interrupt the act of love making. I'm a "squirter. It used to embarass me before I fully understood ... (read in full...)

He's not the duplicitous type....so why did he cheat? Just a mistake or more?

Q.   Is it true that "once a cheater, always a cheater"? Or are there people for whom it really is just a terrible mistake that they learn from and won't repeat? I cheated on my college bf at the end. Didn't sleep with the other guy, but I got emotio...

A.   6 April 2008: Not everyone cheats. Not everyone cheats and repeats. Some people cheat because they enjoy negative attention. Others because they have a yearning to know if they are truly meant to be with the person they are currently in a relationship with. It ... (read in full...)

Come on girls help me out on this one!

Q.   Why do women do this? i've had it happen three times now and its pissing me off. You meet a woman and she agrees to go out with you. She says she wants to take it slowly, you talk get to know each other, exchange thoughts and generally get on like ...

A.   5 April 2008: Sorry you are getting your feelings hurt. But one reader is correct in saying... men have been doing this shit to women since the begining of time. If you are looking for "relationship" material, quit screwing them on the first or second date. ... (read in full...)

Can you fall pregnant if you still take a period?

Q.   Can you be pregnant if you're still getting your period??? ...

A.   27 February 2008: the answer is yes. i was 13 weeks pregnant when i found out. i was having periods and continued to have periods until about six months into my pregnancy. find out if you are. you don't want to cause any potential harm to your baby because you ... (read in full...)

We have hurt each other very much and now she has left. I love her though...advice?

Q.   Help, my wife has left me! We have hurt each other very much and now she has left. I love her very much and I know she loves me, but the pain is to big at this point. We have children and I also don't want them to hurt. I am feeling depressed and I ...

A.   21 January 2008: I don't know what has caused the trouble in your marriage... cheating, lying, abuse, money... but, regardless of the situation, let her know that you love her and are willing to work things out with her. Do not put yourself in a position where your ... (read in full...)

She won't have any further contact with me after six years. What should I do?

Q.   My girlfriend of 6 years just left me 5 weeks ago. She was with me all the time right after work and weekends. She seemed fine and same as normal. On saturday night she came over then went to baby sit like she always did now and again. I spoke to ...

A.   28 December 2007: You know... I read this entry a few days ago and it's still on my mind, so I decided to respond. First of all, I hope that you are dealing with things a little better. Your family needs to stay out of your relationship. It's not healthy for you ... (read in full...)

Should I continue having an affair or be sexually stressed?

Q.   I have been married for 7 years. Both of us are 33. I love my wife a lot and she is very good wife to me. We have two kids. However, our sex life is almost dead. In most cases once in two or three months. I have high sexual derive and sexually ...

A.   26 December 2007: Of course it was amazing sex you fool. It's called getting some "strange," after being married for seven years. Men and women just think differently about this issue. You and your wife are in a marital rut. You need to find a way to come ... (read in full...)

Is getting used to someone a good reason for spending the rest of your life with them?

Q.   Hey All, i'm in a relationship with a guy, its been 2 years now or so. he loves me so much and i love him too, and we're even thinking of getting married. my problem is that, there are things i hate about him, he's sometimes stubborn, his ...

A.   24 December 2007: No. Not a reason to get married. Ask yourself if you truly love this man? Old habits are hard to break, but if his flaws truly made you ill, you would have been gone a long time ago. We all have habits that get on each others nerves, but when we ... (read in full...)

I had brief intercourse with a stripper during a lap dance... should I tell my wife?

Q.   I’m felling real guilty about what happened to me at a strip bar. I’m a happily married man, ten years married with two kids. I go to strip bars, my wife lets me and its never been an issue. She goes out with her friends too, and admittedly been ...

A.   24 December 2007: What you did was wrong. It IS your fault that you allowed this to happen. Hanging out with the guys and taking in some scenery is one thing... and face it... we can all get sex anywhere, anytime. You thought with the wrong head. Not only did you ... (read in full...)

How can I make it tighter without stressing??

Q.   I have a problem. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 and a half months now. Our sex life was awesome in the begining, but lately not so much. We have sex almost everyday, but I feel like i'm getting loose down there and I don't think he...

A.   24 December 2007: Don't be silly. You can tighten your vaginal muscles by doing Kegel exercies. Research it. You are not getting "loose" down there. Your vagina expands when you get excited and have intercourse. Don't let your man make you feel inadequate or ... (read in full...)

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