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writes:My ex left me 4 months ago for my best friend and we have a 20 month old son together and he hasnt came to see our son in about 3 months, he doesnt call or pay child support. Im having a hard time letting him go and I just want him to be apart of our sons life. I havent contacted him since the break up because throughout our relationship I was always the one running to him even when it was his fault, and I felt like it was time to stop running especially when I found out that he ended a 2.5 year relationship for my best friend and I felt like if he was man enough he would come see his son no matter what, but thats not the case. Should I contact him and ask him to come see his son and try to talk to him about us being able to talk for the sake of our child? Or should I just let him go about his life and hope for one day that he will realize what he gave up and try to be apart of his sons life? I dont know what to do !!! I just want my son to grow up with his father!
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (11 November 2008):
I think you need to contact him and tell him that he can sort out child support now, or you will take him to court.
Get some cash and if he doesn't want to see the child then you will just have to accept it and move on.
Your son can judge him for himself once he is older.
Good Luck!! xx
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