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*ran2008
writes:I feel like I'm being stupid about this, but the other day I found out my boyfriend signed up for fling.com. He says he thought it was just an adult site where he could look at pictures, but it clearly is a place to find a fling. I questioned him about it once, but he acted like I was being irrational by getting upset. Should I bring it up again, and get a better answer or should I let it go? Reply to this Question
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reader, fran2008 +, writes (16 October 2010):
fran2008 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you all very much. All of your feedback is what I exactly what I needed to hear.
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reader, xanthic +, writes (16 October 2010):
 He was fully aware of what he was doing and what the site was for, as others have said it's right in the site address. Dump him, his poor excuse for an explanation shows just how stupid he is and how little he really respects you. You deserve much better!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2010): I think you should talk to him again just to see if he deleted the account or what. If it was an accident then there is no reason to keep it. Then ask how he would feel if in your shoes. Then based on his answers be your own judge of his actions.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (15 October 2010):
 Yup, this is definitely something you should not let go. He was looking for flings. Like CaringGuy said, that's the name of the freaking website. Like he didn't know what he was doing. Give me a break.
I'd say dump the cheater.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (15 October 2010):
Dump him. Not only does he know EXACTLY what this site is for, which is meeting women for flings (it's in the title), but he even actually had the nerve to claim you were being irrational. When someone acts as if you're being irrational over something like this, chances are they're guilty as hell and know it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2010): It is a form of infidelity and is a strong warning sign.
You can look at pictures all over the internet without signing up for anything.
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