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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I read a text on my bfs phone [I know I shouldn't have] and it was talking with his male friend from college about this fit girl from their college [I go to a different college to him] and my bf was agreeing she was fit etc. Should I be worried or is he just being a boy?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2010): Hey,
My boyfriend tells me that I'm beautiful etc etc, but i KNOW he does look at other women. However in my eyes there is a difference between noticing another girl is pretty and fantasising about her. Maybe you talk about guys at your school/collage with your friends, even I would notice a fit guy, but I wouldn't act upon it.
If I initially saw this, admittedly I would be a bit jealous. However its a guy thing, if his friend has mentioned she's fit, he's probably going to agree. They're just being guys :)
I wouldn't worry hun :)
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (3 November 2010):
 That's just guy talk. Dun stress.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2010): Hiya, well if my boyfriend said that about a another girl then i would go mad!! I mean if he can say that, that means that he looked at her in a way that he shouldn't be.
My boyfriend is the same with me though so it may be just us as a couple but to me it is unacceptable as your guy need to think how he would feel if yousaid that about a guy and he found out, i doubt very much that he would just pass it off.
Being a 'boy' is not an excuse...
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (3 November 2010):
 He is just being a boy. I'm sure when you are with your friends and one of them points out a hot guy, I'm sure you would agree and say "oh yeah he is hot". Same goes with celebs - I bet you are happy to say if a male celebrity is "hot". It does not mean anything, apart from that person is visually attractive to you.
You clearly have trust issues if you are snooping on him so you really need to work on that, rather than worrying about this.
I hope this helps and good luck!
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (3 November 2010):
 He merely agreed that she was fit, that does not mean he thinks anything of it. A fit girl is a fit girl, that does not mean he is attracted to her. It is truly nothing to worry about. Do you not trust him?
I hope that helps.
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