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Should I be there when he has the baby over

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Question - (18 August 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 18 August 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, *eena Powell writes:

my boyfriend's ex girlfriend, used to be a good friend of mine, but we hate each other now. I have a really good relationship with my boyfriend, but his ex is pregnant, and it's his child, she's due on the 1st of January 2010, so not long now, i don't now how I'm meant to cope, i need to know. should i be there when he has the baby over his house? should i help him look after the baby?? I'm 14, he's 15, and she's 16, i need help it's really hard!

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A female reader, QuirkLady United States +, writes (18 August 2010):

QuirkLady agony auntHmm. Let me see if I can guess what happened. You and this girl were friends. She was with your now-boyfriend. Somehow, they broke up and you started dating him, and now you want to know if you should help with the baby.

Why are you dating your old friend's ex? Why do you think that you should be involved in the baby's life? That's for the mother and father to work out, not you.

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A male reader, RIKI93dw United Kingdom +, writes (18 August 2010):

If u want to do right by you're boyfriend then u should probably, unless the ex says otherwise but I imagine you're boyfriend will need help and I think u should try and get on with considering u were friends before she may need help aswell put differencies aside during this time

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