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writes:ok well me and my boyfriend jus started goin out and i'm 14 and he is 19 but we were friends forever but now he wants to have sex without using a condom.he says he knows when to pull it out is that possible and should i be haveing sex this young?
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reader, pageyz001  +, writes (13 August 2007):
ok well firstly dont even think of having sex at your age firstly your body isnt completeley ready yet and secondly it is ILLEGAL and he could get locked up, also i am in a similar situation with my gf but the differences are she is 16(legal age) and i am 19 and we have both agreed to have protection because the pull out method is not an option!! did you know that you can get pregnant off pre-cum so he doesnt even need to cum inside of you to make you pregnant! he doesnt even need to enter you to do it!!!so my advice is DONT DO IT wait until you are old enough and you are both mature enough to choose to use protection!!hope everything goes well!email me if you have any further questions
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2007): dnt do it, if hes not prepared to se protection he's not worth it and obivusly doesn't want to make sure your safe he wants it to be more pleasureable for him which it often is for men when they don't use them. Your body won't be ready and you could cause harm to it. He shouldn't even have asked for sex, if he loved you he would wait until you suggested it. But DON'T forget- it doesn't have to be rape to get him put in jail. He will go to jail if someone tells the police hes had sex with someone under age and theres nothing you will be able to do. You will have no say in it, yes you can say he didn't rape me i wanted to but at the end of the day he broke the law with or without your consent. He WILL go to jail because no one will be bale to help him out of it.
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (12 August 2007):
 Depends on the law in your state? Over here in the Uk you need to be 16.
The withdrawel method is a dangerous one & what about infections?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2007): I agree with the first poster, and here is something else to consider. Having sexual intercourse at your young age not only makes you vulnerable to pregnancy and std's, but you can even contract cervical cancer. This has everything to do with your being young and physically immature, and the fact that hygeine among boys is not very good is part of it as well. You need to consult a doctor before you ever consider becoming sexually active, you need to be put on some form of birth control pill. Having an unwanted pregnancy at your age will all but ruin your life.
In the US it is illegal for this 19 year old to be having sex with a 14 year old, personally I think this speaks volumes about his character, most likely after you give him what he wants, he will leave you, and he will have made his conquest and lost respect for you...young guys can be real jerks, and they do not make the best boyfriends as they are immature....Girls have it all over boys in the maturity department, and you show that you have a brain in your head for questioning his request for sex. Please see that you use your head.
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reader, Peterk5699 +, writes (12 August 2007):
 You might wanna wait another 2 years. You having sex with a 19 yr old is illegal and will get him put behind bars.
Just because he's your best friend doesn't mean it's alright to have sex at your age.
And also: Pulling out isn't always the best option as you could still get pregnant. If you do decide to have sex use a condom.
Hope this helped.
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (12 August 2007):
 Ok hunni, sex with you could get him locked up as it is illegal. And also, your body may not be ready for it just yet.
I wouldn't rely on your guy pulling out as this can still get your pregnant and give you infections. I would advise you ask your guy to wear a condom!
Only you will know if you are truly ready for sex. From the wording of your question I get the feeling you aren't. If your guy truly respects you he wont mind waiting for you!
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