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Should I Be Angry At All His Lies?

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Question - (26 April 2011) 5 Answers - (Newest, 27 April 2011)
A female Ireland age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Last Summer Of 2010 i discovered 'Dating Sites' . Over A few Months i got into Contact with an American Man Who was working with politics etc we Spoke For Months And I fell in love :) he came to ireland in autumn and asked me to meet him i was pregnant at the time and instead i wouldnt meet him he then returned to ireland yet again in october for wedding my child was born at the time ever night we would send emails after emails to eachother he told me he loved me ? yet we never met and said he would be a stand in father for my son i was overwealmed with the thought of it all and cared for him but yet i kept chickening out in meeting him why ? i dont no. Then Again Two Weeks ago A woman on facebook asked me for a friend reguest she was a friend of his on it . last sunday she sent me a message asking me who i was and told me herself and the man were a couple for a year and a half. i was puzzled so i sent her a mail telling her my identy she then told me that he told her i ws a girlfriend of a realitive of his which was all lies i was hurt because all summer ever mail i sent to him all seemed to be a source of entertainment for him . was i tricked ? Should i be angry ?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2011):

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Thanks for yere help !

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2011):

I wasted a lot of time being angry with a guy I dated for 9 months who worked away during the week and I found out was two timing me and engaged.

Fast forward a year. Am I bitter? No. Am I relieved I got off lightly? Yes. You had a very lucky escape. Be glad. Don't give this rat one more minute of your energy. Thank your lucky stars and move on.

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A female reader, Basschick Australia +, writes (27 April 2011):

Basschick agony auntApparently as much has he travels to Ireland, he was thinking he could have a little "fling" there with someone (you) and his wife/girlfriend back home would never be the wiser. You should immediately cut off contact with this loser/user and move on. This is the down side of dating sites. People can pretend to be anyone they want...even single, when they're not.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2011):

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im so angry but dont know what to do

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A male reader, dirtball United States +, writes (26 April 2011):

dirtball agony auntWere you tricked? Yup. Should you be angry? That's up to you. I don't think he's worth the time, but it would be very natural for you to be mad at him, and it would be justified. Be very happy you didn't meet up with him. I think you knew something was off, you just didn't know what. Way to trust your gut!

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