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writes:I know this is like a duplicate question, but I didn't get enough feedback last time I posted it. So please can it be re-posted :DBasically, me and my boyfriend broke up a few days ago... I cried for hours, it basically ruined my vacation... I still feel like crap... Basically because I'm very lonely as it is... I don't really have any friends to my name, I didn't depend on him, don't take it that way, I let him have his free time and stuff.Well, of course at first I was devastated. He said "It didn't feel right" and "I can't be in a relationship anymore" and "I honestly love you, I can't handle a relationship" I didn't understand at first because I did think it was love myself. Then this morning I realized it wasn't... And I just lost my best and only friend... We were best friends before we started dating...Well coming to the question I'm going to ask...I text him this morning and said"Look... I do know where your coming from... And I personally think breaking up was best for us... Because your too much of a best friend to me :/ Can we just get back to being best friends again? Because I do love you just not in that way, in a best friend kinda way."In all honesty, do you think he will text me back? :/
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell +, writes (3 September 2010):
 well firstly it probably would have been better to talk to him in person, that kind of ensures you get a response, and it doesn't leave you feeling all nervy waiting for his reply. You don't really know how he's feeling at the moment, and that text from you gives him a lot of stuff to think about now: do I want to be around her still? Can I handle acting like we never dated? Will it make me want to get back together with her?
Meet up, and say you still want to be friends. Going straight back to best friends is a big step for two people who just broke up. Try being friendly towards each other first, if you just try to go back to how it was before straight away, it might be weird and awkward between you.
I think it's pretty 50/50 whether he'll text you back. If he hasn't by tomorrow, text him again asking him to meet up because you want to talk to him, or ring him, so you don't have to wait around for a response.
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2010): Jeez, no wonder you didnt get many replies.
Wait and see is the only answer..
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