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51-59,
anonymous
writes:To make a long story short. My doctor and I are attracted to one another. I notice everytime he examies me he takes his strong hands and rub up and down my arm four to five times and it feels so damn good. Another thing I notice was the strong eyecontact. He looks at me like he wants to bang me for hours, I'm ready. I'm married, but not happy and as far as him I don't know if he is or not. My question is should I ask if he's married or let him keep flirting?
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reader, lexilou  +, writes (9 August 2008):
 You report him as his behaviour is unethical, I suggest you change your doctor x
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (9 August 2008):
 Over here in the Uk there is a code of ethics for doc/patient r.ships. Not sure what the deal is there. But we all fancy our doc dont we???? Thats where it should stay though. The guy could lose his job, and i doubt he will want that, they earn shed loads!
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reader, straight to the truth +, writes (8 August 2008):
There is a deffinate doctor patient code which is being well ad truly crossed.
Your doctor knows you are married and your saying he is touching you in a flirtascious way.
You are married and shouldn't even consider such a thing, if your honestly that unhappy with your husband and you believe it is beyond repair then you should get a divorce not an affair.
I wuld suggest changing doctors because this is deffinate innapropriate behaviour.
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reader, dearkelja +, writes (8 August 2008):
 There is a doctor patient code of ethics that he must abide by. So if you want to bang him for hours, he could well lose his job over it, so I hope it's worth it.
The best approach if you two are mutually attracted to each other is to 1) leave your spouse-no fair to have an affair when you are married 2) find out if your doctor feels the same (maybe do this first so if he's not attracted to you, you wont have left your spouse for nothing) 3) if the two of you want to be together, find a new doctor.
Some doctors are just very touchy feeling and you could well be misinterpreting his friendliness. But seriously, an extra-marital affair with your doctor could really destroy a lot of lives. Think twice about things, maybe three times.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2008): I think you are on very dangerous grounds; I have to stress to you, be very carefull;
I suggest you rather change doctors; that will be far less complicated and hassle free;
I cannot judge either you or the doctor and will not try and speculate on the situation BUT I seriously suggest; change doctors!
Best wishes and lots of SMILES.
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