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writes:were just new in our relationship as bf/gf, its for about 5months..i do have a friendster account just recently and come across with my bf account but its restricted for friends user only, i did tell him bout it but didnt insist of anything else for i dont want to be insecure or whatever in his sight, my question is....is it ok for me to wait till when or under what circumstance that i would be able to look into his account or should i ask him to see whats inside? is it the right thing? if not what act could you suggest without him thinking that im a little bit jealous bout the thing but i know that i dont have any other deal with his past but i just want transparency...please help
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reader, Farris  +, writes (11 March 2007):
 I agree with cd206... You're his girlfriend now! You should be added to his friend's list!
There are a few reasons why he might not want this. The first is that he might not even use the site anymore. The second is that maybe he *USED* to use the site for dating, before he met you, and doesn't want to hurt your feelings. The third is that he might have something to hide.
I wouldn't jump to conclusions though. Just request to join his friends list and see where it goes from there.
Good luck and best wishes.
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reader, cd206 +, writes (11 March 2007):
 I'm not familiar with friendster but I use facebook and would assume it's the same principle. Now that you're his girlfriend why don't you just request to be added as his friend on there and then you will be able to see his site. However if he doesn't want you to it doesn't mean he's cheating, just that he believes in privacy which is actually a good thing because it means he's not bragging about your relationship to his friends etc. If it means that much to you ask to see it but I think that would be risking an argument when he's given you no reason to believe that he is hiding anything.
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