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Should I ask him out or stay friends?

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Question - (29 July 2016) 2 Answers - (Newest, 1 August 2016)
A male United Kingdom age 18-21, *ylangov19 writes:


I have recently broke up with my boyfriend and I have been thinking about trying to get back together with my first love the only possible is we both agree it was for the best to stay friends so should I ask him back out or should I leave and stay friends

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A female reader, BlondeBabe x United Kingdom +, writes (1 August 2016):

BlondeBabe x agony auntHey there lovie,

there is only one answer here and you hold the key to it. You have to talk to him! You have to find out for yourself if he still feels there is any relationship there. However, one thing I would say is be careful not to tarnish the memory of your first love and if you have broken up with another fairly recently be careful this just isn't a rebound.

If you are sure of your feelings, then there is only one thing to do and I wish you all the luck and happiness.

Best wishes xox

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland + , writes (29 July 2016):

aunt honesty agony auntYou should talk to him and ask him how he is feeling? Be honest with him and tell him you still like him and ask him would he like to start something up again? If he says no at least then you will know you done all that you could.

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