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writes:So this girl was dating for a few months ended things with me over Christmas. She at least seemed to be a really down to earth and nice girl but broke up with me after SHE missed one of our dates. So a few days we talk and i tell her that i'm okay and fine with what happened even though i wasn't completely over her. She told me that she just couldn't have a serious relationship right now and needed to focus on her career. Seems like a legit reason right? That was two weeks ago. Now she's hanging out with some stoner guy with a lot of acne and a bad reputation. I know I'm super biased because she's my ex but just take my word for it that I'm way better looking, and i was super nice to her like sup rising her with jamba juice or taking care of her when she had a cold and stuff. I don't get why she'd dump me on the premise of not wanting a relationship to get with a guy like that? I'm not even that hurt, mostly disgusted and angry.
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reader, Geta  +, writes (18 January 2014):
Women often do downgrade and many affairs of married women involve a relationship with a man that is less educated, unhappy and financially unstable vagabond in comparison to her husband... Why that is so? No clue because from the man's perspective one has an affair only if what's offered is better than what you already got.
Anyway, anything is a relationship including her drag with the pimple guy except she may not be interested to be in a committed relationship but a loose one or just to have an uncommitted f**k buddy.
Since you are single - move on and find a woman who wants to be in a relationship with YOU and do not take this personal.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2014): It could be exactly what she said. Not wanting a relationship. Maybe this pimply pot-head isn't offering a relationship but something more casual.
It could also be that she didn't feel compatible with you and came out with a paraphrase of the classic "It's not you, it's me" line rather than say outright that she doesn't feel the "thing" for you.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (18 January 2014):
Just because you may be better looking doesn't mean the two of you are relationship material.
What she told you was pretty much the truth: she wasn't looking for a relationship WITH YOU. Don't be offended, you guys just weren't compatible.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2014): Same old story, sorry but she left you for a bad boy,but you should know that he will f her over, big time, then she will remember how you treated her, her lost, but I know it will hurt. Just remember the pain that she will go through will hurt a lot more cause she lost you.
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reader, cmarieky +, writes (18 January 2014):
For whatever reason that stoner may be the type of guy she's used to or wants in her life right now. She may just be with him for the exciting rush she may get without any major commitment. Who knows really. .? I would forget about her like yesterday and totally focus on u. Don't attempt to rationale what she did and why she did it because it'll puzzle u. Besides this is one lady. Continue to be that great caring good looking guy that appreciate and respect women.
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