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*issioncircle1
writes:Well its been 4 to 5 months now since me and my ex broke up.. i let her go but it was hard.. the thing is.. we havent talked in about 5 weeks... and she still doesnt want to talk to me.. am i missing something? our break up wasnt that bad.. but it wasnt a reason not to talk to me again... can i get some help here....
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reader, secret27wish  +, writes (27 January 2010):
Yes, I do still love him. I am afraid that if I continue to speak with him, I will always be in love with him. Give her time to heal. Otherwise, you will move on, and she will always be holding onto you. She deserves the opportunity to find someone who will give her love and commitment.
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reader, Missioncircle1 +, writes (23 January 2010):
Missioncircle1 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Dont you still love him? honestly i dont think a guy would waste his time if he didnt truely love the girl..she is special to me..and i would like to talk to her every now and then i still miss her dearly...well...idk..i can hope she still loves me thats all i can do
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reader, secret27wish +, writes (23 January 2010):
I did this to my ex. I was incredibly hurt when he told me he didn't want a committed relationship with me, but that he still wanted to keep me in his life as a good friend. I told him I would be drastic and cut him from my life entirely in order to move on. I just couldn't spend time with him or talk without wanting more. He e-mailed and texted me for 2.5 months without my responding. It just made things worse for me, and I couldn't heal. I eventually contacted him to let him know I was trying to heal and was feeling disrespected by his attempts at communicating. Not everyone can be friends with an ex. For some, like myself, it is just too difficult, instills a sense of false hope, and never allows us to truly move on.
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reader, Missioncircle1 +, writes (23 January 2010):
Missioncircle1 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell i did move on i just wanted to catch up with her is all..and be friends...can a woman be that hurt?...she is a special girl to me..so i would want to talk to her every now and then...but cutting contact completly from me..i thought she loved me..-_-
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reader, Missioncircle1 +, writes (23 January 2010):
Missioncircle1 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell i did move on i just wanted to catch up with her is all..and be friends...can a woman be that hurt?...she is a special girl to me..so i would want to talk to her every now and then...but cutting contact completly from me..i thought she loved me..-_-
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (22 January 2010):
When someone cuts contact, it means usually that there is someone else. Maybe she has found someone else and has chosen to stop contact with you so she can make it work. Or maybe she's just hurt and needs space. Thing is, she is your ex, so this is probably for the best anyway, though that may sound harsh. Time to move on.
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