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She still won't talk to me...

Q.   Well its been 4 to 5 months now since me and my ex broke up.. i let her go but it was hard.. the thing is.. we havent talked in about 5 weeks... and she still doesnt want to talk to me.. am i missing something? our break up wasnt that bad.. but it ...

A.   27 January 2010: Yes, I do still love him. I am afraid that if I continue to speak with him, I will always be in love with him. Give her time to heal. Otherwise, you will move on, and she will always be holding onto you. She deserves the opportunity to find ... (read in full...)

She still won't talk to me...

Q.   Well its been 4 to 5 months now since me and my ex broke up.. i let her go but it was hard.. the thing is.. we havent talked in about 5 weeks... and she still doesnt want to talk to me.. am i missing something? our break up wasnt that bad.. but it ...

A.   23 January 2010: I did this to my ex. I was incredibly hurt when he told me he didn't want a committed relationship with me, but that he still wanted to keep me in his life as a good friend. I told him I would be drastic and cut him from my life entirely in order ... (read in full...)

She seems genuine but guarded. Should I wait?

Q.   I met this woman recently, we had a couple of dates. We clicked very well, both were very intrigued by each other. But when it came to being intimate on a number of occasions she had a hard time to open up. Sometimes I think she unknowingly had ...

A.   1 December 2009: She isn't looking for a relationship right now. In 6 months to 1 year down the road, she may have a different view, but that is a long time to wait. Live in the moment; live for today. If you can stay in touch with her while remaining open to ... (read in full...)

Why is he unhappy?

Q.   My fiance and I would have been celebrating our 5th year together in December but in October he tells me that he feels like something is wrong with him, he thinks its an early mid-life crisis (he's 33), something is missing in his life, he feels ...

A.   28 November 2009: I couldn't believe it when I came across your post. Aside from your engaged status, my situation is identical - we even had our talk in October too. I don't know what to tell you because I am crying all the time too. Perhaps you will find com... (read in full...)

Boyfriend is ignoring me and I don't know why

Q.   How do you get over a breakup when you love and care for someone? My boyfriend of 9mths indirectly broke up with me, he just has been ignoring me for the past month and i havent done anything wrong: no cheating, etc...he just stopped texting,...

A.   22 November 2009: This is so hard because you have invested yourself for almost a year into this relationship, and now here you are without closure. My self-esteem would have taken a bit of a beating too; it's disrespectful and hurtful of him to behave this way. M... (read in full...)

She seems genuine but guarded. Should I wait?

Q.   I met this woman recently, we had a couple of dates. We clicked very well, both were very intrigued by each other. But when it came to being intimate on a number of occasions she had a hard time to open up. Sometimes I think she unknowingly had ...

A.   21 November 2009: I agree; one week is a small price to pay for the potential of something really good, especially when she has been honest with you. Give her the week to pull herself together. She is probably at conflict with her feelings for you versus whatever ... (read in full...)

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