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writes:ok so now that we have been separated for 3-4 weeks we are talking more now i try not to call her when we do talk she is in a happy mood laughes jokes around and we often talk about sex. we have had amazing sex the last 2 weeks total of 4 times doing things we never did b4. she keeps telling me theres no chance of her turning back but then she always brings up that there is a small glimpse of hope.. can someone expliain to me what that means cause i'm teetering on the edge of insanity lol. Reply to this Question
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reader, lexilou  +, writes (17 May 2008):
 I agree it seems as though she's doesnt want all of you but doesnt quite want to let you go yet.Or maybe she's just playing hard to get. Put your cards on the table and tell her your are not interested in being a friend with benefits but thats its all or nothing - do this before you get hurt x
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reader, Aunt Audrey +, writes (17 May 2008):
 Separated as in broken up, I take it? It's looking like you've gone from boyfriend to sexual entertainer...
She is giving you mixed messages, "no turning back", "glimmer of hope", Ask this woman what she wants, stop having sex with her until you know, if you are emotionally tied to her you could be on the way to getting hurt. In my humble opinion it sounds like she's using you for sex till someone else comes along! If you're happy with that so be it, if you want something more out of the relationship tell her to get lost because I don't think she's that bothered. She is now single and free to do as she pleases and is having great sex courtesy of you... clever girl, called having your cake and eating it!
Good luck
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