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writes:A woman at my job told me she had a sex dream about me. She even said I was good. I asked her if she wanted to have sex with me and she said no. Why would she say that and then not want to take up on the offer. I let it go, no means no right? Or am I missing something here. Could this be a very real desire on her part? I would love to, but I will not put her in a situation she doesn't want. I would rather have her respect. On the other hand, I don't like to be sexually teased by her telling me about that dream and not wanting to have sex. Whats going on here? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2007): I've had sexy dreams with men I would have never be attracted to while concious. But they are just dreams, it doesn't mean she wants you necessarily. Maybe she is playing hard to get. I suggest you tell her next time not to warm up the food if she is not going to eat it. Don't talk about the subject anymore and if she really wants you she'll come around once more but stronger and then you'll know what to do. But don't let her manipulate you.
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (10 October 2007):
 You make it all sound a bit clinical mate. She shared a private intimate moment with you and then you simply said "lets have sex" ( at least thats the way you put it ).
Now I'm not saying you overreacted or anything, she did say she had a sex dream after all and if that isn't a hint I dont know what is.
Its just you shouldnt jump up and say , "Ok. lets have a shag then".
I think she would at least expect some company first huh? Dinner, movie, conversation, hugs ...then the sex!
There is also the ever so slightest possibility that she is the ultimate co*k tease. Though in this day and age I doubt it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2007): She was flirting... are you socially inept or just inexperienced? You don't usually (unless drunk) go from a flirty comment to a romp in the sack. There are "inbetweens".
Way to ruin your chance!
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reader, Pinkbees09 +, writes (10 October 2007):
 Maybe she just had a dream and you just happened to be the person she was having sex with. You'd have to be the one would be able to tell whether she was joking or not. I think she was being serious from this.
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (10 October 2007):
You were supposed to be polite, acted amused and after a week asked her out to dinner. She was just trying to tell you she liked you and you acted like a hound dog finding red meat.
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