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She kissed another man!

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Question - (14 December 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 15 December 2008)
A male Trinidad and Tobago age 41-50, *ACBOMB writes:

Here is the situation,

My girlfriend got together with me when i was hung over my ex. Things started out well and we fell for each other. I soon had to leave to study abroad 6 months into the relationship. While i was away i got lost in influences of others at university and oe girl in particular hit on me and i ended up kissing her. I felt disgusted at myself and i put and end to that and confess to my girlfriend and came clean. Since then i totally reformed myself and put my all into the relationship. (i was mean to her when that happened) Now after flying back spending money to surprise her i thought everything was great. Then she called saying dont give up on her she made a mistake. She kissed another man after. She claimms her friend was ttelling her i was no good for her and this "bartender" was way better than me. so she used to go there and flirt with him and call him for weeks. She says she liked the atention and had no intebntions of cheating on me. One night she said he leaned in and they started kissing. She says she eventually pulled away and does not know why that happend . she says she loves me

since then she has done away with the friend and the bar

i feel very hurt help please

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A male reader, CACBOMB Trinidad and Tobago +, writes (15 December 2008):

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thing is i always thought of her as my dream girl and from how she was she had me believeing she loves me 100% but it sucks to know she didnt stick by my side through everything

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A female reader, taina1980 United States +, writes (15 December 2008):

As they say what's good for the goose! you did & now you know how she felt... not to say you guys should go tit for tat but forgive her & try to move forward...

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