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writes: Ok here's the deal. This girl ive liked for awhile was dating a guy for almost 3 years. I came home and we started talking as friends. But then she started talking about how unhappy she was and she didnt have feelings for him. Well weve been dating 2 months long distance. I found out through a mutual friend she has been texting and calling him. After a long talk she admitted having feelings for him. Now she says she need time to think about what she wants to do. She still has feelings for him. He just got another girlfriend and i just think she wants him beacause shes jealous. Well now she hardly calls me once a day and sometimes every couple of days. Anytime I talk to her she says she loves and wants me but just wants time. She always has excuses why she is staying out so late or why she didnt call. Is she cheating on me with him? or is this legit and she is just taking time away.
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reader, camille  +, writes (12 September 2006):
 I don't think she's cheating but you need to break it off with this girl. Whether he's got another girl or not, she's just not ready to move on. She is probably hurting because he's with someone else and that's made her think about her being with you. It sounds like you're her friend and he relationship is a rebound one. She needs time to get over her breakup, 3 years is a long time. Give her time and space or you could both get hurt. The long distance may actually help as it forces the situation. Whilst she has feelings for her ex, there's no point pursuing this girl. It'll be better to wait a few months and then see how the land lies, and when she's over it, then you'll know she's only got feelings for you.
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