She doesn't answer the phone when I call, or she'll answer and promise to call me back but never will.

A female age 30-35, *ewelHeart writes:

Hi, I am 18 years old and decided to start experimenting with a relationship with another woman 2 months ago. The biggest problem is that she's 39. It was troublesome at first, but after a couple of nights together we both feel much more comfortable. However, I recently started college and she's been busy at work so the only contact we have is over the phone. Lately, she doesn't answer the phone when I call, or she'll answer and promise to call me back but never will. I can't get her out of my head and while she has told me that my calling doesn't bother her, I can't help but feel that I'm becoming more of a nuisance than a comfort. I've tried not calling for a couple of days but as far as I can tell she doesn't miss me at all. Am I doing something wrong here?

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