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... Send *isa21 a private message | | | *isa21's profile:hiya everyone, i don't have answers to everything but i have opinions and everytime my friends have problems, i'm the first to hear them and they always ask my advice,
i live in portsmouth with my fiance and we are 7months pregnant, i work as a care assistant in a nursing home,
what makes me tick? cupboard doors being left open for no reason and people who look down on others.
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I lied to her and she won't forgive me...
Q. i don't know how to say this without sounding like a shallow a-hole... but my girlfriend and i got in a fight because i lied to her, today i bought her flowers and a card but she still hasn't forgiven me(can't say i blame her) but her frien...
A. 18 October 2007: suppose it depends how serious the lie was, probably a bad one seeing as you got flowers for her, tell her friend to get bent act like it dont bother you and she'll soon get fed up if she dont get a reaction from ya. ... (read in full...)
Something's wrong with me cuz I dumped a loser?
Q. What do you guys think of a 29 year old guy thta lives with his mom and dad, doesn't lift a finger to help his mom around the house who works midnights in a nursing home and is in her 60's, does not work and has not worked in 1.5 years, says ...
A. 18 October 2007: maybe there was something wrong with you, you were actually with that sad git lol.
well done for seeing the light, no one should be stuck with a loser like that.... (read in full...)
I'm 15, and a 20 year old on MSN keeps asking to see me. What do you think?
Q. theres this guy i know. hes 20 i am only 15 and i dont like him in that way. he is too old, not my type and copletely the wrong guy for me but he seems to of took a liking to me. everytime i see him or talk to him he smiles at me and winks at me and ...
A. 18 October 2007: make sure you let him know you are not interested, get to the police it is harrassment.
do not go out on your own, do not chat to him incase he thinks you are interested.
tell your relatives.... (read in full...)
How do I save her when she doesn't want my help?
Q. my best friend since kindergarten just told me that she is a lesbian. we have been friends all our lives and i dont know what to do homosexuality is a big big sin and i know that she will go to hell for it. i told her this and she said that god lo...
A. 18 October 2007: she deserves a better friend than you, so you are saying you have never sinned?
GET OVER YOURSELF. maybe you should be asking forgiveness for being such a poor friend.... (read in full...)
My last girlfriend said I was 'boring'
Q. My last girlfriend said I was 'boring'. How can I make myself more attractive to women or I am I taking things to heart too much?...
A. 18 October 2007: erm, this is a hard one as i have stopped being with someone because i thought they were boring, but looking back... i don't think it was the lad who bored me, i just don't think he was my type, now he has a girlfriend who he has been with for 9 ... (read in full...)
Why doesn't he want sex anymore?
Q. I've been dating this guy and it'll be 6 months this coming saturday (10-20-07). Well...Lately, I really just feel worthless. He doesnt seem to want to have sex with me any more. We'll have sex when he wants it. Any time i have ever tried starting...
A. 18 October 2007: i had a simillar prob with one of my ex's and i found out he was stealing from me, using my money and spending it on other girls so watch out for that one, but it may not be that at all, he may just have alot of things going on in his head, we all ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants me to masterbate in front of him.
Q. Just a quick question. Before having sex once, my boyfriend was fingering me and he slowly guided my hand down and basically told me to sort of rub myself. I've never done that in front of anyone before so I was kinda uncomfortable and didn't. He ...
A. 17 October 2007: yep he is hinting, my fiance did the same thing to me, god i was so embarrassed, but i decided to try it and i enjoyed watching him getting all worked up that i wasn't worried about it any more, so now i love doing it for him and for ourselves.... (read in full...)
I'm in love with a 16 year old girl.
Q. hey. This may seem odd to a lot of people out there, but I think I'm in love with a 16 year-old girl. I'm friends with her mother who delivers baked goods to my shop. Sometimes "Diana", the mother, will send "Jocelyn", her daughter, to my shop to ...
A. 8 October 2007: she is young enough to be your daughter and if this child was my daughter and you tried anything i'd be after you. its disgusting that a man likes a child in that way.... (read in full...)
What is the average age to lose your virginity?
Q. what is the average age to lose your virginity? it's just that i'm a 20 year old male and i haven't had sex ever. yet when someone asked when i lost my virginity and i said i hadn't they called me a weirdo. am i quite old not to have had sex?...
A. 4 October 2007: you are not a weirdo, its so nice to hear that some men want to wait and not follow others, i know a man who was 19 when he lost his virginity and after wished he'd waited longer, he lost it as he was pressurised at university. ... (read in full...)
I want to watch my girlfriend have sex with my male friend
Q. Should I let my best mate sleep with my girlfriend while I watch? Hello everybody, My name is Jonathan. My girlfriend and I have been 8 years together and we're both 28 years old. For the past year or so I've been having this vivid fant...
A. 4 October 2007: if your fantasy comes true i can almost guarantee you will not have this relationship any longer!
why dont you record yourself and your partner making love and watch that instead of watching your partner cheating?... (read in full...)
My boyfriend asked me if I would have an orgy, which I'm anxious to try but don't know what to do.
Q. my boyfriend recenty asked me if i would have an orji. me and 3 other boys. i am quite anxious to try it and would like to give it a go but i wouldnt know what to do... i am ready for sex have done it tons of times but i dont know whether it would ...
A. 4 October 2007: he is disgusting and doesn't care bout you, otherwise he would not want to share or disgrace you like that, you'll get a name for yourself, he'll finish it and tell everyone, you are stupid if you do it, especially at your age.... (read in full...)
I love him, but he his taken.
Q. I'm experiencing a unrequited love, the truth is i'm MAD about him, i duno if he knows this as i've never actually told him but I try and make it obvious through body language...and the thing is, he's living with someone [don't think they're ...
A. 4 October 2007: oh god i'm living with my fiancee and we are both in early 20s his ex is 15/16 and she still pokes her nose in when she can i'm pregnant i'm not worried bout his ex cos we are both happy and in love, i think you just need to go back to school find ... (read in full...)
She brings her friends along on dates... !
Q. Hi there, Me and my girlfreind have been going out for 8 months she is still in school and im in college. We dont get to meet each other much anymore. We probably meet up once a week and when I do arrange to meet up she always fetches her frei...
A. 4 October 2007: are you her first real bf? if you are that could explain it, she maybe shy on her own but more confident with a friend around, also it sounds like you see eachother what? once a week? so even though you been together for eight months, she may not be ... (read in full...)
I'm curious about the "party" my BF went to.
Q. Hallo everyone! My BF went for this B-party in a Hotel Room in New York city with 15 other guys this saturday. Didn't directly tell me what happened over there, except, that he didn't do anything wrong that would hurt me ... and that he didn't c...
A. 4 October 2007: i wouldn't stay with someone like that! he's obviously taped people stripping having sex etc, how'd he feel if it was the other way round. sorry but he don't care bout you. you deserve better.... (read in full...)
Why shouldn't I have a baby?
Q. i crave for a baby. i am 17 and quite mature for my age. i know 10 girls one of which is my best friend, all my age who have had babys last year after leaving school. i went to college. my boyfriend and i have been together 4 3years in november ...
A. 2 October 2007: hiya, i'm 21 and 8.5 months pregnant, it was not planned,
I would not change my situation for the world, i should've been more careful, but i live up to my responsibilities,
my babys not even here yet and it's alot of very hard work, me and my f... (read in full...)
Ideas to look older? (make up, clothes, hairstyles)
Q. i am 14 years old i look a bit younger i want to look 14 or older but i still have a bit of a baby face i am about 5'2 so i am a bit small but i am still growing and i am thin too.my hair is longish but i want it longer.please can someone give me ...
A. 30 September 2007: oh god i still have this problem, i'm 5ft3 i've tried all hair styles short and long, i'm 21 and still get told i look 17/18! it really used to bug me, think of it as a blessing, when your older you'll be looking younger than you are, however i know ... (read in full...)
People tell me that I am beautiful, smart, have a shining personality, but guys never want to date me because of my weight? Why don't guys date big girls?
Q. I am 20 years old. I have had one serious relationship and a few boyfriends. I think it has been because I am overweight. I never thought it mattered. I love myself and i have more confidence than most people. People tell me that I am beautiful, ...
A. 30 September 2007: don't take this the wrong way, but are you sure you are confident? as there is a big difference in being confident which is great, to being over confident and bragging? it may not be the case but i don't know you so i'm just warning you. alot of ... (read in full...)
He wants to do me "deep and hard" and "hardcore"... what does it all mean and will it hurt?
Q. hiya, you no if a boy wants to have sex with me yes what does he meaan by doing it deep and hard??will this hurt due to it being my first time having sex??he also said he wants to do me hard core is this painfull or will i enjoy it?? and is it norm...
A. 29 September 2007: i am fed up with hearing about young kids having sex, especially when its just to please their partner, your first time will not be rose petals and fireworks, infact, it's painful, uncomfortable and a bit messy, that's why you should wait til your a ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with someone who makes me so happy... yet, so miserable as well. What do you think?
Q. I need serious advice on how to handle this. I am in love with someone who makes me so happy yet so miserable at the same time. I lovemy girlfriend. Infact she is everything I could ever want right now. Problem is she fucked things up at the...
A. 29 September 2007: i feel sorry for your gf it mustv'e been tough losing her ex, i still don't believe thats an excuse to cheat but at the end of the day you chose to stay with her, yes you deserve the truth but maybe she's just not ready, she needs to talk to someone ... (read in full...)
I am 17 and have been cheating on my boyfriend with a 31 year old
Q. i am 17 and have been with my boyfriend also 17 for 3years, my feelings have changed and i love someone else. i have recently been seeing a man of 31, he is lovely and doesnt seem his age. i work with him and have stayed over his house 6 times ...
A. 28 September 2007: your poor boyfriend. thats who i feel sorry for, i can not stand people who cheat, if you do not love your boyfriend you need to get a back bone and tell him. i believe what goes around comes around and when it does you will know how your bf will ... (read in full...)
In a new relationship, but still horribly in love with my ex-boyfriend!
Q. I really love my Ex boyfreind and i'v tried everything to move on, i'm in a relationship right now and my boyfriend knows how i feel about my ex. I think about my ex all the time and everything reminds me off him, i cant seem to get over him and ...
A. 28 September 2007: it sounds as if you have picked your current boyfriend because he is like your ex and that's really not fair on him, it's also no good for you, you should not be with anyone until your feelings for your ex have gone, how do you expect to get over ... (read in full...)
Why do men look at other women?
Q. Why do married men--or any man for that matter--stare at other women when they want to be with you and they love you and all that stuff? Men are so confusing sometimes I'm surprised I have nerves left....
A. 26 September 2007: this is going to sound strange, but i've never caught my fiance looking at anyone else, infact i spot girls looking at him and i told him once and he turned around to them and asked them what their problem was, i know he likes the attention but i ... (read in full...)
Can anyone suggest anything we can do different together and re-fresh and avoid the "predictable" ?
Q. I think I am bored with my routine in life. I don't know why but a few weeks ago I used to like going to my girlfriends and her coming down to mine but now I am so bored I find it harder to feel exited about going to her house. I get exited about ...
A. 26 September 2007: sorry to ask but i was wondering how old you both were because it seems like you are doing alot of staying in?
it doesn't sound like your girlfriend stands much of a chance as you said she hasn't talked anything interesting in two years? i'd like... (read in full...)
I was drunk and had sex with my neighbor, I am not sure if it was rape. What should I do?
Q. ok, not too long ago, i was home alone and my family was out on vacation. well one night, i got drunk by myself and then i heard the doorbell, i opened it thinkin it was one of my friends came to visit me. but it was my neighbor, my 58 year old ...
A. 13 September 2007: in your question i did not see the word NO! which suggests he did not rape you. ... (read in full...)
Ashamed of my stretch marks, what's your opinion?
Q. i am an 18 year old virgin, who has never been in a relationship. the reason is because i have no confidence in myself. i have stretch marks all over my boobs, thighs and hips and im totally ashamed and feel discusting. i have met a lad, 21. who h...
A. 13 September 2007: i'm so sorry about how you feel, i sort of have an idea how it feels, i was 20 when i met my partner and trust me i have quite a few stretch marks, on my belly backs of my legs, on my hips, i also had a car accident when i was 18 and broke my spine, ... (read in full...)
Would getting in shape and getting a job make me more attractive?
Q. Looking for a womans advice here... I'm not in the best of shape (I'm not fat, but I ama bit above average), and I'm unemployed atm, I was wondering if I would appear more attractive to women if I got into bettr shape and landed myself a job. ...
A. 13 September 2007: Some women will say yes about the whole body issue as well as the job, you say you are not fat, so you don't need to lose weight for health issues, if you're happy with the weight you are i'd say DO NOT CHANGE, unless of course you want to do it for ... (read in full...)
I want to attract my bf more, to be sure he never leaves (we marry next year.)
Q. i want to attract my boyfriend more, i know he is truly in love with me, and im his only girlfriend,we wanted to marry but because of some truble in our job and study it has been postponed, so we wanna marry the next year, but untill that i want to ...
A. 13 September 2007: you sound head over heels in love! congratulations on the wedding, as for your husband 2 be, if he really didn't want to be with you he wouldn't want to get married, please don't take what i'm going to say wrong but... IF someone wants to leave you ... (read in full...)
What do I need to know to be a good kisser?
Q. I'm 12 and I have been going out with this boy for about a month now. I really want to kiss him and he really wants to kiss me too but I'm scared that I will be a rubbish kisser and I am afraid he will dump me for it. I am Quite shy around him too ...
A. 8 September 2007: remember to breathe and try not to dribble. x x x... (read in full...)
How will I know when I'm ready to have Sex with him?
Q. hiya all i have been with my bf for a month now and we have dun pretty much everything apart from have sex.We are both still virgins, and he seys hes ready to have sex and hes being really good about it and is not pressuring me at all, but how will ...
A. 8 September 2007: you will know when you are ready when you wont have to ask us. be careful x x x ... (read in full...)
I really like kissing and my boyfriend doesnt
Q. My boyfriend and I have been going out for 8 months now and everything is going great. My only problem is I love kissing and my boyfriend really doesnt. When i ask him about it he doesnt come right out and say he doesnt like it he just says if its ...
A. 8 September 2007: are you two having sex? from the sound of it i dont think you are as you say you like to kiss and your boyfriend is getting bored of it, be careful he doesn't try rushing you into it if thats not what you want, i'm 21 and me and my boyfriend do have ... (read in full...)
I am 23 and have fallen for a 14 year old!
Q. i am a 23 year old male, and i have a 14 year old friend i have meet and known for a while, we get on really well, and her parents seem to trust me and her. but i think i maybe fallin in love with her, and i think she feels the same way, im not...
A. 8 September 2007: when i was sixteen i met a 22year old man, i loved the attention {i did not have sex with him, i was a virgin til i was 18.} before we were going out it was great, he bought me presents and i thought it was the best thing to happen to me, when we ... (read in full...)
I am 23 and have fallen for a 14 year old!
Q. i am a 23 year old male, and i have a 14 year old friend i have meet and known for a while, we get on really well, and her parents seem to trust me and her. but i think i maybe fallin in love with her, and i think she feels the same way, im not...
A. 8 September 2007: when i was sixteen i met a 22year old man, i loved the attention {i did not have sex with him, i was a virgin til i was 18.} before we were going out it was great, he bought me presents and i thought it was the best thing to happen to me, when we ... (read in full...)
Here is my list of the "perfect" boyfriend! What do you think?
Q. Here is my list of the perfect boyfriend. Are there any men like this? 1. Shares all email and IM passwords 2. Has none, or only one, female friend 3. Tell's me when his only female friend calls 4. Tell's me when he goes basically anywher...
A. 7 September 2007: does not sound like a boyfriend to me it sounds like you want a puppy who follows you around, im sorry but you sound jeleous selfish, insecure and immature, good luck finding a man like that!!!!!!... (read in full...)
How can I start to rebuild a relationship if I don't trust my husband?
Q. How can I start to rebuild a relationship if I don't trust my husband, we do not talk, we are completely opposite including our views and I feel unloved, unappreciated, unattractive to him and just found out that 6 months ago he had an online ...
A. 7 September 2007: you are not the reason he cheated on you, it's probably more to do with the fact that you aren't communicating, however that is no excuse for doing that to you, he has a voice the same as you, i wonder how he'd feel if you'd had an affair? you do... (read in full...)
My husband works away and we only see each other once a year. He says i'm shy. Please help.
Q. i am married and my husband does job in other country.he comes after one year and we talk on phone after one week or in emails.in our 4 years marriage i still feel a gap with my husband.he says you are shy girl..he is simple and honest man. i am ...
A. 7 September 2007: i don't know how you manage seeing so little of your husband, no wonder you are shy, it sounds as if you two need to spend alot more time together to get to know eachother again, maybe he should think about working closer to home or you need to move ... (read in full...)
How can I make this up with my girlfriend again?
Q. I've been with my girlfriend about one year now and I really love her. We tend to fight a lot but always talk it out and are better. Last month I was having a drunken stupid conversation with this one girl I used to work with. We both liked each ...
A. 7 September 2007: if i was your girlfriend i would have left you as well! how would you feel if your ex had said that to another man? put yourself in her shoes, would you stick around???... (read in full...)
She doesn't answer the phone when I call, or she'll answer and promise to call me back but never will.
Q. Hi, I am 18 years old and decided to start experimenting with a relationship with another woman 2 months ago. The biggest problem is that she's 39. It was troublesome at first, but after a couple of nights together we both feel much more ...
A. 3 September 2007: she doesn't sound interested, not your fault, it just goes like that sometimes, sorry x x x... (read in full...)
I still want him back, after he cheated on me! What should I do?
Q. O.K My ex-boyfriend and I split like 7 months ago, and he has a new girlfriend. Which is the reason why we split!! I ended up hurt really bad as he chose to be with her. However, recently I have met up with him and we ended up messing around. He was ...
A. 3 September 2007: how can you feel sorry for this creep? i was in a simillar position except i wasn't daft enough to fall for the sympathy act, he cheated on you and now he is being cheated on, what comes around goes around i say, he knows his girlfriend will realise ... (read in full...)
I would like to know the difference between someone telling me, "I Love You," and someone telling me, "I am in Love with You."
Q. I would like to know the difference between someone telling me, "I Love You," and someone telling me, "I am in Love with You."...
A. 22 August 2007: hiya, in my opinion they are two very,very different meanings, i used to tell my ex... i love you but never told him... i'm in love with you, because i cared for him alot ,but that was it. we split up and now im in a very loving relationship and i ... (read in full...)
Does my teacher fancy me and I'm wondering...do I love him?? Help me understand my feelings.
Q. I fancy my teacher to bits, I think he might fancy me too but he is a teacher so it’s hard to decide. Everyone says hes a perv but i really like him. I spend evenings with him. He is really clever he loves to hear what i think. We’ve grown really ...
A. 21 August 2007: you obviously like him more than he likes you, he is a teacher and you are a school girl! you are creating a big love scene, i think its all in your head. aim for something a little more real like a 15 year old schoolboy.
im sorry but you need to g... (read in full...)
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