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writes: even though my wife has told me over and over I am by far the best man in bed she has ever been with and she really raves about stuff...but because of her giving me the details of some past partners, I still feel insecure and when these thoughts get in my head, I am now loosing erections.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2006): All women like different things in bed,if she likes what you're doing,and obviously she does! then you dont have a problem, dont ask her about her past anymore,asking her about current fantasies will be more beneficial to both of you. If she says she's happy believe her, if you're the best she's had, dont deny her!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2006): I've had that problem before, except, being female, I can honestly say I've never lost an erection, lol. Anyway, my advice to you would be to not ask anymore questions about her past lovers, and don't let it get in your head. Focus on the moment, not on things that happened in the past. Remember that she's with you and you're the only one she's getting any action from, and if she says she likes it and she's not getting it somewhere else, then you really have nothing to worry about. Past lovers aren't a threat. There's a reason it's you with her now and not them. Try being a little more dominant in the bedroom too. It might boost your confidence. Good luck to you, and keep in mind, you're a champ!
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