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writes:I have a girlfriend and we are in a relationship since last six months. Her ex-boyfriend came to me and told me everything that existed between him and my girlfriend. They used to kiss a lot, even got physical but it was not proper. They were in a very good relationship. But she broke up with him and now that guy is saying that she has cheated on him. My problem is that i cant live with a girl who has cheated on somebody. Firstly, she lied to me about her ex and then i think she has cheated on him. She tells me that she loves me a lot and is ready to give any proof i want. please help me out !!!
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reader, gaurav_15290 +, writes (11 May 2010):
gaurav_15290 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHere in India,things are a little different.Her ex called up her mother and told everything about their relationship.She got very upset and so did i.Now this guy is writing what not about her on facebook,spoiling her image in friends and this is hurting me a lot.But my girl is silent.She is giving no explanations whatsoever.How do i handle this situation.I m depressed.
1)i have to get over her past.
2)deal with her boyfriend.
3)be careful with her.
I m also jealous of her ex that he his my first love's first love.
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reader, Advice_man  +, writes (11 May 2010):
 I wouldn't break up with someone just because i suspect that she might have cheated on her ex! Instead I would just keep an eye on her, just be a little carefull for my own sake. That's all.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (11 May 2010):
He might just be saying all these things because she dumped him. You have no proof at all that she cheated. You need to get over this.
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reader, roxayy +, writes (11 May 2010):
Well, first things first. I've been cheated on before, I've been the cheater, and I've been the one who was dating someone in a relationship - so I know my share of cheating....
I'm not proud to say that but I'm just giving you my credentials.
However, right now I'm dating a guy who has only had one other serious relationship prior to me and he was cheated on by his ex with his best friend. Needless to say, my records are bad news to him. However, I make him happy enough for him to give me a chance, and I care about him enough to do whatever it takes to make this work. I give up updates on whatever I am doing to put him at ease
You just need to think about what you can and what you can't live without. Can you live with her past? Can you live without her? Can you let things go? Can you stop doubting? or can you not?
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