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writes:i need help deciding. Would you recommend me to ask out a friend i like but risk our relationship or live with it and go crazy everytime she talks to me and makes my day amazin whenever with me.So shall i tell her my feelings or not? Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, Tigerlily  +, writes (8 October 2007):
I think there are things you could do to test the waters. You might try giving her a small gift and see how she reacts. Give her chocolate or flowers or something silly that has to do with a private joke between the two of you... and see how she reacts to that. If she seems really enthusiastic then you can try taking things a step further. If she seems uncomfortable, she might just want to be friends, then you know to back off and just stay friends.
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reader, AskEve +, writes (7 October 2007):
 If you both get on well and you feel she really likes you too then I say go for it. Who knows, she might feel exactly the same way but is too shy to ask you. There's no reason why you can't casually ask her if she wants to hang out, go with you and take in a movie or go for something to eat.
If you don't ask her then you'll always wonder so I say go for it.
Eve
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reader, violentviolet +, writes (7 October 2007):
 Go for it!! You will regret it if you don't, and its the only way that this situation can be resolved one way or the other. If your friendship is strong enough then it will survive even being knocked back.
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